BM and flavor of the week
So I recently posted that BM took her NEW boyfriend to fsd9's first holy communion which I did not attend as it was in the church where FDH and BM said their vowels a year after Fsd9 was born. It bothered me so I did not attend. So she had my DH which she has our girls with - her new baby to another guy and her new boyfriend with her? In a catholic church...hmm...hahah I mean...we've been together just shy of 5 years and I go to everything he goes to because the girls want me there. Now...she had left her baby daddy and moved the kids into her brothers - rumor was she was seeing another guy (NOT the current boyfriend) - then moved back into baby daddys - got preggers - had the baby and a few months later moved out again into her own place to be with some other dude..she has moved the girls 14 times or more in 5 years. So she had left baby daddy again for this other guy...then broke up with him and got back with baby daddy...then went back to the other guy and took him to the communion...so we thought she was still with this guy when the girls informed us that they stayed at their half brothers house (baby daddy's) the other night...I asked where they slept? Since they no longer have their beds at his house - they said they slept on the floor and I said oh? Where did your mom sleep? They said in baby daddy's bed. I FLIPPED! They have their own beds at THEIR house and they are now seeing her share beds weekly with two different men one of which she has a child with...WTF is wrong with this broad? And What exactly would it take to get the girls away from her? She is teaching them this is okay? Does this count as proving her as an unfit mother? Probably not...the court system is so messed up...
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I forgot to add - we just had
I forgot to add - we just had them for two nights in a row - and they come again tomorrow evening for two nights in a row - BM threatened DH with court if he didn't get them more...I said okay we will play this game and when they end up with US 4 nights a week we will take her to court and then she can pay CS - anyway. They have wardrobes here - but they've grown out of most of their summer clothes so DH asked BM to send just some jean shorts a couple of tops "just in case." So they get here...
1. She HACKED all of their hair off and it's horrid and longer on one side than then other - I was going to take them to get it fixed but I decided we'd let it grow out during the summer even if they have extremely uneven pig tails...of course she can afford to have her hair done professionally and her nails done but can't take her kids for $11 hair cuts. I was mortified as the younger one had amazing long curly hair that I LOVE to put in piggies! And she loved her long "mermaid hair." And of course she did this the day before we had a family picnic to go to...
2. I open their little suitcase...to find inside out dirty clothing. I picked out a pair of leggings...now I know dog hair exists as I have a dog....BUT - it looked like their dog was in the damn suitcase! There was one pair of jammies...(uhh does she know she has two kids?) and some old old sneakers? WTF? I took a picture of it and sent it to everyone I know just so they can see what I am dealing with...DH had the nerve to say things don't stay put in a suitcase...nevermind there are straps in it to keep them in place...and none of the clothes were folded...it looked like a hamper! I MADE FMIL look in the suitcase....she said, "Well maybe they packed their own clothes?" I said MY children would NEVER be allowed to throw things SO carelessly and dirty clothes to boot in a suitcase! She then agreed and said "uhhh yeah you're right after seeing the mass of dog hair everywhere." They would do anything to defend this poor excuse of a mother....UUGGGHHHHH!!!
A E I Do?
A E I Do?
He came down with the flu the
He came down with the flu the day of the wedding...and uh...spent the whole night throwing up...should have been a sign. hahaha. I just felt really uncomfortable being in the church where their wedding was held...ew.