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I just got a FB notification that BM commented on my birthday post on SS's wall

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 07/25/2011 - 8:15am

My post to SS was:

Happy Grown-Up Birthday tomorrow! Wishing you a path for a life that you LOVE! Smile

Just about 15 minutes ago, BM posted the following comment:
BM: Thanks Stormabruin, now could u tell that husband of yours to pay his child support please!!!!!!!!!

My face is hot, my hands are shaking & my heart is racing. I WANT to reply, but am not going to do it. IF I did, it would come out something like this:

Update to BM's "stroke"

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 07/18/2011 - 6:40am

I hate to say it, but even if I don't, it's in my heart. It's only because of my fear of karma that I don't literally pray to God a stroke takes her from here. I won't be sad if it ends up killing her.

My MIL had a stroke about 8 years ago. They kept her for 6 days. My mom has had several "mini" strokes. Even with those they admitted her & kept her for a few, to determine what functions had been affected.

BM had a stroke Thursday morning...

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Submitted by stormabruin on Fri, 07/15/2011 - 12:43pm

is the story SS called to tell last night. SS turns 18 tomorrow & was wanting to spend the weekend with DH & I to celebrate.

He called around 9:30pm last night & said that when he woke up at 6:30pm...yep, PM, BM told him that she'd had a stroke that morning. She was fighting with the live-in (not dating, but he pays the bills) & she kicked him out...again...yesterday morning.

SS slept through it all, but the story goes like this:

BM called DH yesterday...looking for her CS check

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Submitted by stormabruin on Wed, 07/13/2011 - 9:17am

She called around 12:30pm & the kids were still in bed. He said the first thing out of her mouth was, "Where's my check?".

DH: BM, I mailed your check yesterday (Monday).

BM: Well, why so late? When I talked to Storm she promised she'd be mailing them first thing on Friday mornings.

God, give me the strength...

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Submitted by stormabruin on Wed, 06/22/2011 - 9:43am

I called into work yesterday & spent the day running errands with DH. We hit the unemployment office first thing & got his paperwork filled out. We did a couple of things at the bank, & then went to the Social Security Admin to request copies of the kids SS cards. F.A.I.L.

DH had his DL, SS card, & birth certificate. We had court papers to prove the kids were his. They wouldn't accept the court papers as proof. I said, "We just sent off for their birth certificates. I guess we'll be back when they come". They don't accept those either. WTF???

I had no idea Father's Day weekend would produce this

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 10:07am

So, our weekend was anything but drama-free. At work, Friday, DH's boss made a comment about DH's daughter to the guy in charge of the site...the guy DH's company works for. Because the job took so long & had so many problems, he told DH's boss, "You owe me & I need payment in the form of a piece of ass. You owe me a night with your daughter". DH's boss (not knowing DH was standing behind him) says, "I've got 2 sons but I don't have a daughter...but DH does. You can have her. It's his fault all this took so long anyway. For that, I'll give you 2 nights with her".

BM pissing on her territory again...

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Submitted by stormabruin on Thu, 05/12/2011 - 7:04am

So, I know many here are not fans of FB. That's cool, but I am.

DH's kids have both extended friendship with me there. I am no too ignorant to realize that BM is likely viewing my page through theirs. I have my information secure...my friends list is hidden. My family is hidden. My work & contact information is hidden, as is most all of my other information she doesn't need to see.

SS stayed with us this weekend...unsupervised!

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Submitted by stormabruin on Mon, 04/18/2011 - 10:13am

So, SS came Friday. We met BM just up the road from their house after work Friday. She didn't bring SD with her. She didn't speak, but glared the entire time SS was moving his stuff from her car to ours. DH smiled at her & said, "Hey" & she threw him the stink eye. I waved. I'm not sure if the stink eye I got was the leftovers from his, or if it was for me specifically. LOL! Whatever. We went by the Fresh Market & spent $57 on 3 Porterhouse steaks to put on the grill. We went by Walmart & picked up a few things that SS wanted to have while he was there.

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