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14year old SD smoking pot

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Submitted by Smomof3 on Tue, 08/28/2012 - 11:44am

I've been saying all along that she and her friends act strange...sleep alot, lay around, act lazy. Apparently, she started smoking pot this year on 4/20 at 4:20 (she's so cool). We received a call from the school, she was talking about it with a friend and was turned in anaymously by another student. DH has taken a hard stance, but BM said they pressured her into it....She took her babysitting money to the drug dealer and bought pot, she made the choice.

BM swearing the kids to secrecy

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Submitted by Smomof3 on Tue, 07/24/2012 - 7:05pm

What is the deal with BM's having the kids keep secrets? It's not even good stuff,this one is just stupid.

My SS13 was sworn to secrecy not to tell us that his BM has an $800 cable/phone/internet bill that she can't pay. Like we care. Yeah, SD14 is there, but those things aren't necessities. It just makes me wonder what else she can't pay. The worse part is she lied ot him and told him it was a transfer fee becasue she moved...$800 is probably 4 months worth.

Adult SS 22 is a dream

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Submitted by Smomof3 on Mon, 07/23/2012 - 11:28am

My adult ss22 stopped by to visit me today at work. I love him to pieces and i'm so glad he's grown into such a good adult.

He comes to me with questions that I think he's afraid to ask anyone else, which makes me feel special. Sometimes it's sex questions and sometimes it ettiquette. He's getting married in Oct. and they are buying a house this month. Today asked me if it was ok to ask for their wedding gifts in advance...I explained how while he had good intentions, that was bad manners and tacky.

Strange behavior

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Submitted by Smomof3 on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 7:56am

SD14 had two friends over who are sisters 14 & almost 17, from Thurs til Sun. All three girls were quiet the entire time, which I found weird. I took them to the movies and they didn't even bother to come their hair. Didn't want to go to the pool because they wanted to lay around and sleep. All they care about is being on "tumbler" which is some blogging site. I've never seen one teenage girl be quiet, let alone 3. They also scurry through the house like mice, acting like their afraid of something so God only knows what SD has led them to believe.

Step Daughter Is Staying...

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Submitted by Smomof3 on Sat, 06/30/2012 - 9:23am

SD14 is staying with us, no going back to live with BM. BM can't afford her and won't discuss any issues without flying off the handle. I don't think it's too much to ask that she not take SD to N/A meetings, give a bed time, etc. The people at those meetings and the topics aren't appropriate for a 14 year old.

Also, BM doesn't have insurance so my guess is she's off her bipolar meds.

The Flute

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Submitted by Smomof3 on Tue, 06/26/2012 - 2:21pm

SD14 comes to live with us last year. We get custody of both kids. Before DH even quits paying support, which he paid 3 months longer than necessary, BM calls to ask when we will start taking over SD flute payment of $30/month, which were 3 months behind. We just didn't respond...we pay for everything...school, clothes, braces, medical and she to date has paid not one penny of child support.

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