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as i type, dh is in court with bm..have you gone to court with dh or do you stay out of it?

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my stomach is in knotts even though everything has already been decided in mediation. I was going to go with dh, but he said that i really didnt need to. since i worked all weekend it was nice to sleep in and not get up at 7 am to get ready for court.

dh just called me to say that he is going in to the court room now and just wanted to call before he went in and tell me he loves me...he also mentioned that dip shit brouht her sister with her. her sister is the complete bitch who along with my mil has been coaching bm through all this crap!

friday funny...peopleofwalmart dot com

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i got this site from sia and its hilarious!!! i thought of it yesterday as someone protested about the correct conduct one should have while in a walmart, and knew i had seen much worse "walmart" behavior some where else!

happy Friday everyone!! ill post monday after court, keep your fingers crossed for us that the judge will come down on bm just as the mediator did!!!

OMFG---bm proves once again what a stupid crazy nut she is.

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so after mediation, bm is told SHE has issues, custody will stay the same, blah blah blah, past blogs explain....
dh gets papers in the mail that bm re filed more paper work that she still is seeking full custody, that ss should be with her any time dh is not with ss because he should be with a parent not step parent...and he should be with his mother not step mother because im not a "real" parent. WTF, yes ladies and gents......she really is that stupid.

why do bm's think that because they exisit, they get to define the boundries for sm and dh as man and wife?

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this is really so annoying to me right now!

for example, most wives will speak out of turn and answer a question for dh with out thinking, but if bm is present we lose that wife ability because they dont like it.

like most wives, i have been doing the ground work for getting a list of Pre K places so dh can look at them on his day off, because hes working. but because its for ss, bm expects that dh should do it him self and if i help im over stepping! heaven forbid i help my husband and be a supportive wife unlike the cheating whore she was!

every time i give bm the benefit of the doubt that she cant possibly be that stupid, she has to prove me wrong!

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ok
example one:
dh gets papers that bm is seeking full custody with right of refusal of dh's visitation if i would be watching ss4. She actually is so stupid as to have her first couple sentences in her statement read, "every thing was fine with custody arrangement, but respondent remarried" then in seeking more cs, actually states that she needs more money from my dh because she fears her disability is running out. ummmmmmmmmm helllllllllloooooooo, GET A JOB!!

im going to ruin my marriage if i dont relax

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okay, i should be on cloud nine right?! bm got her ass handed to her by the mediator. we were told that bm will NEVER get full custody, and it will always remain at 50/50. bm admitted she has issues after mediator made it obvious, has to attend counseling, has since offered to give dh his child care money back for the month $270 (shes been pocketing it for at least the last 6 months since the govt was paying the whole tab) is kissing major butt with dh, and even agreeing to meet with me to exchange ss, no attitude or anything.

mediator tells bm kids at 11,12, and 13, revert back to how they were at the age of 3,4, and 5.

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and that instead of ss throwing a fit, he will be cursing her out says "i dont have to listen to you, you fukin beotch"
she told bm that she better get a handle on disciplining her son or this is what is going to happen.

For those of you that have been around skids during both ages, is this true? Has it effected you home and relationship?

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