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Submitted by smnikki on Thu, 01/14/2010 - 3:53pm.

when i become i bm, im guessing because i am so hands on, i would feel the same in a way. but like you im not a nut job, and i would not have had the cops called on me for taking my child when it wasnt my night.

we have 50/50 and the current schedule is that we have ss every mon, and tues, and every other fri, sat, sun....so it rotates we have him 2 days and then for 5, and so on.

bm finally got a job (not to better herself, or to be stable for ss, but because her bf threatened to leave her) anyways, she has to work now so she just cant take having him for 5 straight days. and she told dh that she thinks they will need to change the schedule soon.

so ive been pretty quiet because bm has been on her best behavior. Always agreed to drop offs and pick ups, always agreeing on the phone about issues with ss (we told her to stop letting ss4 watch movies like the dark knight)...so all has been calm......but i knew the other shoe would drop..and today it did!!

BUT this time she has really kicked her self!!!

dh and i have been very worried about ss when he is with bm. I have MANY photos of ss over the last two months of bruises, scratches, and a messed up eye where bm's dog attacked ss. we didnt know what to do though...

i ask because ss and i get along really well. he is almost 5. Most times when i find myself aggravated its because he is being a normal little boy, and is doing something like running up and down the stairs when ive told him our stairs are not a toy. He has bad table manners. but he his raised by trash 50% of the time so i know to expect that no one has really mad an effort to teach this child how to act respectable in public. However, I really dont disengage about anything when it comes to ss.