I got the OK from her to go. She said rip the band-aid off and do it. Moving isn't a bad thing as long as you are moving from one "stable" place to another. She did say to find a place in the same school district, so I am looking a few places tomorrow. I feel so relieved and so scared at the same time. I am trying to figure out when to tell him. My co-workers said to tell him as the moving trucks are in the driveway. I just don't know...

Yep. Sitting here in my office alone on a Saturday catching up on busy work just of avoid my husband. How sad is this? All we are doing is fighting. I am walking on eggshells and going to bed at 8 with the kids just to avoid some gigantic fight he has been trying to pick with me for a week now. I can't even breathe without him snapping at me. I just need my world held together for a little while longer. It can all come crashing down this summer, that's fine. But right now it has to be this way.

I am asking as a BM, but also taking into consideration on how I would feel as a SM.

My ex knocked up his girlfriend, I made a smart ass comments when the broad wouldn't shut up one day and now they are married }:) - oops!

My ex has now decided that he wants the kids for the full summer- not the 3 weeks + every other weekend in the summer like we have had arranged until now. He works very long days.

My kids don't want to spend more than 1 week plus the every other weekend that they normally have.

As most of you who know my situation know, my Dh is an ass. V-day blew. What sucks the most is that I actually thought he was going to do something!! I told him I was going to stop by the grocery store on the way home from work and get some steaks to grill and have a nice v-day dinner at home. He said, don't do that, just go home. So, I did. I got all dressed and excited. When he got home he plopped on the couch and acted like such an asshole. No, there were no reservations, no he didn't have any plans. Why did he not want me to go to the store, I HAVE NO IDEA. We fought, I cried.