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Submitted by Newstep on Fri, 01/11/2013 - 5:30pm

BM is notorious for letting SD stay home from school for any perceived illness. School is just not important to her but in her twisted head she believes she is MOTY and only has the kids best interests at heart. Last year SO received truant letters from the school These are auto generated driven by how many days your child misses.

BM irritates me!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Fri, 01/11/2013 - 3:02pm

SO texted the dummy BM to ask if she wanted time with SD since its SD's bday next weekend she is with us. First of all he is being nice by offering but he is also just staying one step ahead of the dumbass. Because we already know that she will twist things around and bug us asking for time. So you would think she would just say yes right? No way that is too easy she has to check with SD and see what she wants to do. Well she texted back and said SD wants to spend 1/2 day with you and 1/2 with me so I will pick her up sometime in the afternoon I will have to let you know.

Who doesn't want their own child on Christmas?????

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Submitted by Newstep on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 11:23pm

SD's BM!!!! I can't believe this worthless woman doesn't even want her kid on Christmas!!!! She wants us to keep SD and drop her on Wed morning. It's her year to have Christmas Eve and we get her on Christmas morning. So we made our plans accordingly. A few weeks ago she tried to guilt SO by saying she had no money for Christmas blah blah blah. Now she just texted him that it would be so much "nicer" for SD to spend the holiday with us because she doesnt want SD to miss out on a nice Christmas.

Just thought of this regarding skids and Christmas presents

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Submitted by Newstep on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 3:48pm

Do any of your skids ask for help in getting Dad/Mom a present?? I was just thinking about this SD13 has made no effort to get something for her Dad the whole time I have known her. She got him one card on Fathers Day and that was it. This year yet again she hasn't asked me for help in getting SO anything for Christmas. I remember my bios used to save money and buy some thing little for their Dad and his GF nothing fancy but just a little something.

Just wondering if anyone's skids gave any thought to Christmas other than their own gifts.

Just when I start to think that SD may be getting

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Submitted by Newstep on Wed, 12/19/2012 - 9:25am

She proves me WRONG!!!

Tomorrow night is her first winter formal. Her BM took her to get her nails done and look for shoes for her dress. She comes home to show me her nails. They looked really cute but she was mad because the lady didn't take her design and kinda went off on her own design. Which I understand to a point. But she talked about this nail tech like she was a piece of shit!! Then laughed because her BM yelled at the lady. SD said yeah it was so funny :? :? :?

SO is such a wuss sometimes!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Mon, 12/17/2012 - 9:56pm

It really is pathetic to hear him ask SD if she would like to follow the rules. One rule is daily showers she will try to get out of it most every night. Then he has to ask her is she is ready to take her shower. It's an aggravating point with me because he has such a hard time enforcing rules on her. I mean showers daily no brainier right?? Noooooo it's SD it's almost 8:00 are you ready to take your shower yet?? Or hurry up and take a shower so you can come back out to watch TV before bed.

S/O of my other post about Chirstmas spending

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Submitted by Newstep on Wed, 12/12/2012 - 10:42am

Could you live off 1700.00/month and still manage to save some money every month?? I am trying to see if it could be done. I know plenty of people can live off that much per month but could you still manage to save 50 or 100 per month?? I am pretty sure that this is BM's "budget" so to speak. The reason I know the amounts is because SO used to pay all these bills in addition to giving her cash :jawdrop: every month. He was paying about 2000.00 to 2200.00 every month!! All without a court order.

WOW its Christmas season and surprise BM doesn't have any money

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Submitted by Newstep on Wed, 12/12/2012 - 10:18am

VENT directed to BM just have to get this out }:) }:) }:) }:) So every year Christmas rolls around right?? You would think that BM would plan for it?? Yeah right who am I kidding. So now its the poor me I have no money for Christmas texts. Poor SD won't have Christmas presents so how is that SO's problem???? Because BM you are used to manipulating him and using SD as the bait. Well guess what it doesn't work anymore you pathetic excuse for a mother. So go cry the blues to some new person that you haven't scammed yet.

Gonna be a long day!!!

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Submitted by Newstep on Sun, 12/09/2012 - 11:29am

Today is my lazy day to do whatever I want. When SD is here she is following me around all day and I can't do anything I enjoy. So I usually just stay in my bedroom with my iPad or some other project and let SO deal with his kid. Today we are decorating the house for Christmas which I love to do. I tolerate including SD because she always has her controlling opinions on how things should go. Or I have to hear about her mom's decorations like I give a crap.

SO family Christmas party

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Submitted by Newstep on Sun, 12/09/2012 - 11:06am

Yesterday was SO's family Christmas party. It is always a really fun time and I really enjoy it. They all hated but tolerated BM so they are very happy that SO and I are together. SO's SD is always included and treated just like family there is no difference at all. But she always brings the drama just like her mother. One year she had a melt down because the party was going on and it was too hard for her not having her mom there at the party. She made a scene and was sobbing so all the aunts had to comfort her.

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