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Who doesn't want their own child on Christmas?????

Newstep's picture

Submitted by Newstep on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 11:23pm

SD's BM!!!! I can't believe this worthless woman doesn't even want her kid on Christmas!!!! She wants us to keep SD and drop her on Wed morning. It's her year to have Christmas Eve and we get her on Christmas morning. So we made our plans accordingly. A few weeks ago she tried to guilt SO by saying she had no money for Christmas blah blah blah. Now she just texted him that it would be so much "nicer" for SD to spend the holiday with us because she doesnt want SD to miss out on a nice Christmas.

So many things wrong with that crazy ass woman's logic. She sits on her ass all year long doesn't work collects 1700.00/mo in CS and now has no money for Christmas. So because SO and I both work and plan for all of our kids and grand kids we save money and buy gifts for Christmas. So now we are supposed to pick up,her slack because now she is poor little victim who can't afford Christmas :?

Whatever BM you better suck it up and you will have your daughter for Christmas because she loves you and she wants to be with you!!!!

I just don't get it I know some of you have DH's/SO's that get robbed of their holiday time and we have loser BM who would rather not deal with it. :O

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Newstep's picture

Submitted by Newstep on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 11:31pm

That's so sad!! I have never missed Christmas with my kids!! Never I would have to be in a coma or dead!!

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Submitted by onebright1 on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 11:45pm

Actually, I traded years with the Ex last year and let him have BD8. My reason was I didnt/dont want her around skids as much as I can help it because a few of the skids bully her. SO had skids last year, so I traded so that we would have opposite holidays to try and difuse some of BDs misery. EX ended up getting 2 Christmas's in a row, and I now have her this year for Christmas and skids will be at BMs the week I have BD Wink
Dont get me wrong, she was 7 at the time, and loved to play with stwins8 at the time, but one of the stwins and SD12 at the time was and still are crappy to BD now 8.
Works well now, the limited time they spend together makes stwins a bit nicer when their time with BD8 is shortend.

Doesnteatcrow's picture

Submitted by Doesnteatcrow on Thu, 12/20/2012 - 11:50pm

My stepchildren's mom has never had them for christmas and doesn't even call? I can't imagine it either but my bonus.

imjustthemaid's picture

Submitted by imjustthemaid on Fri, 12/21/2012 - 5:30am

Our BM has never had SD16 for Christmas and has never asked to have her. She would never buy a present for anyone anyway!!

Kilgore SMom's picture

Submitted by Kilgore SMom on Fri, 12/21/2012 - 11:28am

Our Bm hasn't had step son since?????
2012 BM in prison
2011 BM on drugs
2010 BM in prison
2009 BM on drugs

Okay then Bm hasn't had ss since 2008.

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Submitted by simifan on Fri, 12/21/2012 - 5:33pm

BM always pushes for SD18 to come for Christmas - tried to get her to come on the 23rd this year now that she isn't cover by CO. Insisted she come the 26th as scheduled & never buys her a gift?!?!?