so my ss BM hasn't seen him in 3 weeks. She has talked to him twice. She text me to say that she really misses him and wants to see him. but as some of you know we are waiting for a judge to say we have to send him over there. But anywho! The two times she has spoken with him its been for a matter of two minutes three at the most! He "PERFECT" mother who claims to love ss so much has not called or anything. They sit and say they love and care for this little boy so much but seriously have made no effort to change our minds about visitation! Someone please explain this to me!

this website is new to me and i have got some wonderful advice from a lot of you. I have learned that my ss is only looking for the mom in me that he doesn't get from BM. thats thanks to some of you. thanks so much for everyone's advice.sometimes good advice is hard to swallow when you know its right!

well i guess i finally got good news today when it comes to my ss BM. After the episode last night with her i called our attorney this morning! The exact words that came out of his mouth were "to hell with her" yea i was shocked to! since she signed primary custody over to us she is screwed. The custody papers say nothing about her having specific days and times on visits and that visits must be agreed on by both parties. well since we don't agree she has to file a motion with the court and get it on paper when and where she is allowed to have him!

We have primary custody of my ss but he spends every other weekend with his BM. The last weekend he was over there she calls to tell us she is on her way to the ER with my ss because he split his head open. later we find out that he fell off the couch and hit his head on the coffee table. I mean i know he is only 4 and accidents are going to happen, but the thing is that she was sitting in the same room with him and didn't make him stop jumping on the furniture. She is more like a playmate for him when he is there instead of being his mother.