so my ss BM hasn't seen him in 3 weeks. She has talked to him twice. She text me to say that she really misses him and wants to see him. but as some of you know we are waiting for a judge to say we have to send him over there. But anywho! The two times she has spoken with him its been for a matter of two minutes three at the most! He "PERFECT" mother who claims to love ss so much has not called or anything. They sit and say they love and care for this little boy so much but seriously have made no effort to change our minds about visitation! Someone please explain this to me! I mean if someone were to attempt to keep me from seeing my two BD's there would be serious problems. But not with these ppl. I don't get it. she NEVER does anything for him. Not even to buying him shoes clothes or hell even making sure he has groceries here to eat. I mean i don't really expect her to buy groceries for my house but if he were my BS and didn't live with me i would want to always make sure he had everything he needs. it just continues to amaze me how selfish this piece of crap poor excuse for a woman is. well not even sure you could classify her as a woman! Women take care of their children! She makes no fuss about not seeing him but yet wants to cuss me for a whore and a slut and bitch because things aren't going her way. PLEASE EXPLAIN!