So my DH is in the military and every year we get two weeks of block leave (vacation). Every year when this comes around we have to go home (our home state, we're stationed in a different state). We go there every year on our two week vacation to see his kids. There is no parenting plan and "monster" won't let us bring them to our current station, bc it's "to far away". It's just very unfair to me that on our ONLY vacation we have to go to SC, back to our hometown,and sit at MY parents house for two solid weeks.

So my husband admitted that he treats my son differently than he does his two sons! I knew this all along, and I even asked him on numerous occasions if it was because we had my son 90% of the time as opposed to having his kids maybe 5 times a year.I asked him if he felt guilty for having to step up and be my sons father when he can't really be his kids dad. His answer of course was always "no when I married you I knew ya'll where a packaged deal" etc.... As soon as we started living together I automatically spotted the difference and tried to point it out to him.