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Spineless and Brats...

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So EX So decided to tell his kids I left "temporarily." Some temp thing because I took every single item I owned.

The oldest one said I should "text" her every now and then to say "hi." Are you freakin kidding me? She chose NOT to come over anymore over sharing a bedroom. And I DO text to check in on her and she only texts me back when she wants something or needs a ride. So WTF should I keep texting her every single day and why did my SO say "it goes both ways." They both can bite me.

What is the hold up?

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So I moved out of the house on Sunday because I couldn't take SO's daughters anymore. I told him once he started to get a grip on them then POSSIBLY I could and would come back but not until he proves to me that he is at least making an effort to parent them.

A few days later...

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The past few days were emotional but today I have to say that I feel better. I decided to see a family therapist and the therapist told me my best bet was to cut ties. Because he still thinks I should "come home" while he "fixes" his kids. Earlier tonight he text me "I though you wanted to try again with the girls?" My reply was "Excuse me? I did try...I tried plus some. I have bent over backwards for your kids and what did that get me?" He totally realizes what his kids have put me through but I will not put myself nor my kids in a hostile environment.

Never knew....

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So yesterday was my first night moved out and I never thought in a million years I would be "sad." I miss my SO so much but not his kids. He is under the impression if I come back "him and I" can help straighten out his kids. I think I have tried and I don't feel like it is my responsibility. I just can't put myself nor my BKs back in an environment where there is so much drama between everyone and his kids. Am I being unreasonable?

One tiny step forward....One GIANT step back...

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So SO sends the Email to BM yesterday. Today I found out that she responded. Curious me asked if she was mad or understood his feelings. He response was "kinda." He said he got a response but then said it didn't go through. But when I talked to him on the phone though he said pretty much this about the two subjects.

Braces:

Birthday Crap....

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So since BM asked SO for some money for a BDay party SHE planned for SD, this has been a touch subject for SO and I considering he has not freakin balls when it comes to "The Golden Uterus" aka BM. So, I typed up this letter in "hopes" perhaps he could retrieve his balls that the BM took and kinda set her straight in a not so mean and negative way. Anyway...I have not heard back from SO about the letter. I did NOT send the letter, I am hoping he will or at least stick up for himself.

BM,

Once Again....

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Once again SO and I are fighting about his children. I really don't think him and I have a future especially if we are not on the same page. Once again one of BDs (the eldest who doesn't come over because she had a temper tantrum because she had to share a room with her sister) called and asked if my SO could take her to practice tonight. No biggie....but this is the second time (once being just this past Friday) that she has asked for a ride and then at he last minute his other daughters tag along.

Been thinking...

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So two out of the three FSKIDS have had a nasty stomach bug so they have stayed at their mom's house. Though I would NEVER wish ill health on anyone (not even them) I. do have to say that the house has been alot less stressful. SO and myself are doing great, my biokids are doing good (they don't have to worry about their stuff being destroyed or being bossed around (my kids are younger then his.)) Anyway, so I have had alot of time to do somethinking...

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