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DH F****** up BIG time

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Submitted by maria14 on Tue, 06/07/2011 - 7:39am

My DH did not go to SS's graduation. I pleaded with him to go. I knew it would come back to blow up in his face. It only took 24 hours to do that. My MIL had gone instead of my DH with the ticket SS sent. The ticket said "Admit one". Well guess what, to save paper, the school gave one ticket for every two people. SS did give us "two" tickets. THIS was why I wanted my DH to call SS. But no, my DH was a stubborn ass. We have recieved three messages that curse us out. First, it was MIL. She called DH a moron and a few other choice words. BM called. She rarely calls.

Dh going ballistic, how to deal with this graduation issue?

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Submitted by maria14 on Mon, 06/06/2011 - 7:48am

We finally got the tickets for the graduation. My DH was planning a big graduation party for his side of the family. He wants to give that bloody car during the party. But when we got the tickets in the mail, it only says "Admit one". My DH is PISSED! He told me that if I was not invited he would also not be going. My DH also wants to cancel the party and just give the car to SS later. He is fuming. I am asking my DH to call up SS and ask about the tickets. But my DH is saying he will refuse to beg and will not go. I know my DH really wants to go.

SS and graduation, pissing me off

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Submitted by maria14 on Fri, 06/03/2011 - 1:36pm

Do any of you deal with a stepkid who won't clue you in on their lives? For past three years, we have been completely out of the loop. We do not know how SS is doing in school and what courses he is taking. We know his graduation is coming up soon and when my DH asked him when it was, SS says Yeah, I am sending the ticket. We still do not know. My DH is getting pissed too. He said if he is not invited, he will not beg to go. He also said that he will not go if I am not invited. I am not sure how I feel about that.

DH spoke to SS about the car and I am NOT happy

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Submitted by maria14 on Wed, 06/01/2011 - 8:47am

DH talked to SS and told him he would spend 1500 on a used car and that BM would have to pay for gas and insurance. But then SS goes on a rant on how unfair it is that our BS got a nicer car. And then he says how his mother cannot afford anything. He called my husband a jerk who could not even look after him. That he had to live in a dump. How kids made fun of him at school because of the clothes he wore. That we would not let him take clothes we bought him home with him. Can you blame us? We would never see those clothes again.

Car and my SS, I am new!

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Submitted by maria14 on Tue, 05/31/2011 - 7:56am

Hi, I am new to posting. I thought I could try it out.

I have SS 17 and a BS 16. BS is ours. We had SS EOWE and every Friday to Saturday evening. When SS turned 14, he stopped coming as often. He barely met us one day a month. My DH was very upset and tried and tried to get SS to come by more. But SS always said he was busy.

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