SS will be going to college in September. So we obviously need to get the money sorted out. I talked it it over with him. We will be giving him 350 a month and we are paying for the car's insurance. We agreed that he should get the car. He will also get 25 a month for gas. We will do this for a year and see how it goes. I am not very happy with it but I think SS deserves a break. Of course, my H (husband) wants to meet SS before giving him the money. But question is when? Time is running out but my H does not want to force himeslf on SS. I am suggesting meeting this weekend.

My DH got a voicemail from SS over the weekend. This has been the first time SS has even said anything to my DH in weeks. They met during the funeral but SS did not say a word. In the voicemail, SS says "Dad, I was wondering if you could sell the car and give me the money instead. I need it for rent and stuff. Ok..Bye." My DH let me listen to it. My DH did not call SS back yet without discussing it with me. He wants to give the car to SS AND give him the money. He wants give him 400 dollars a month, and pay for insurance and gas for the car.

She passed away last night. She battled almost three years with cancer. It is really sad. I cannot even begin to imagine how my SS must be feeling. My own parents are still alive. My SIL and BIL are helping with the funeral arrangements. It is this friday. BM's family will be coming out of state for the funeral. BM"s poor father. He was in an assisted living facility. It must be very hard on him.

I know it is a question in bad taste, but I never actually thought about it. My SIL told me that BM is in the hospital again and it is not looking good. People have been saying she has cancer, pnemonia and some do not even know. But she is in the hospital for sure. BM has been sick before but we never knew. MIL knew but she never told us. So now SS resents us for not helping. That is what I think.