I am seething. We've had a Pretty good holiday celebration with my side of the family out of town. When it came time to go home and drop off ss in his home town on the way to ours ( my family is in another state and ss town is in between) dh texted bm to let her know we were leaving. She responded okay. Halfway through the nine hour drive she texted that she's sorry but she's Out of town and can't get back and the cd says he's supposed to keep him until Sunday anyway so she's gonna follow that.

I recently got a job that has better medical coverage than my husbands. He is required to provide SS with med insurance. If I put us all on my insurance, even though we are married, is there ANY reason that BM could cause trouble since I'm providing it and not DH?

So DH came home that day and announced he'd deleted everything and printed off the pictures I wanted for me. Then said "I know that's not why you're upset, it's the way I acted; but I promise I didn't download those pictures and I'm sorry for being a Jerk"
"Why did you get so upset if they weren't yours? That's suspicious... what would you think if I'd acted that way?"
"Well I'm just stressed..... yard yada, beat around the bush with no straight answer"
Later I went through hid computer and and didn't find anything out of the ordinary.

SS10 just went to camp for a few days, it's welcome break I've gotta say, and it's only been two days.
I went in to get laundry from his room to find a huge mess, and an even worse smell immediately when opening the door.
He didn't pick up any of his toys like I'd asked him the night before (since he left early in the morning.) and DH didn't check anything before he let him leave.
He also didn't bother to tell anyone he'd wet the bed, so it sat there all day until I went in for laundry and found it.
Gross.