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Need help figuring this out

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Hi ladies! Its been a long while since I have been on this site. Things are going really well between BF and I =). I have a question though that I need some help with. My BF has a 3 year old daughter and 6 year old son. I believe both have been subject to PAS. So here is the issue. When its time for BFs scheduled visit he normally picks them up from daycare. Normally both kids are fine. Sometimes SS6 tells BF that he doesn't want to go home with him and that he hates him SD3 is fine leaving DC.

Bill in the mail

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Just got a bill in the mail from the dentist for BFs daughter. Its not a lot its on $200 but Im upset because BM didnt tell BF that she was taking her to the dentist so we didnt know that this bill would be coming. Not that we cant cover it but thats not really the point now is it?

Making a list

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So after all the talk on her about "priority's" I am going to send my BF and email and ask him to rank things how he sees them. I am thinking about putting this down. Not in any particular order on here.

Kids
Job
Family
Partner
Self

Am I missing anything?

Got My House Back

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Just thought I would update you all ... after a long three day weekend I have my house back!!!! Woke up this morning to the skids screaming and whining so all the kids got put in their rooms for the day. BF made dinner and I decided to eat in the other room because of already being in a bad mood I didn't feel like eating at the troff. Now I am not saying this to be mean but has anyone ever eaten with two kids who have no manners? I'm serious when I say my dog eats quieter than these two.

Question about step parents

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Ok so I am going to try and make this long long story short. I was born in Scotland after my mother and father divorced. My mom married a Navy man who of course become my step father. A few months after him and my mother married he got orders to come back to the US so we came with him. I was 4 when they got married. They divorced when I was 16. During this time my mother and him had lots of issues. My mother didn't work do SD took care of her and her three children. She didn't want him to be in the Navy anymore so he got and and went to the academy to be a correctional officer.

Later in life child

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So after posting something on someone elses blog I thought I would post a new one. Did any of you have children around the age of 40? If so, do you think it was a good idea? would you do it again? I ask because I am 27, I have a 6 year old daughter and my BF has three kids 13, 5, 3. With all the drama going on with the BMs and CS. I have said to him that I am not sure that I never want another child and that if I did I would want to have it after the kids are grown. What do you guys think about that? pros/cons?

Welcome

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I just wanted to say welcome to all the new StepTalkers we have. There are a lot of new people that have joined and I wanted to say welcome and I look forward to hearing your point of view on things. This is a great site!

CATDUCK

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Smile he he he its catduck. Now if there was a bunch of these would it be a pride or a flock? Does it like water? Can it pur? All things I have wondered

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