It's my daughters 5th birthday tm. Hubby took the day off today and tm, so that he can get ss as early as school finish today, and take him to school after present opening in morning.

6pm comes and ss and hubby are happily making banners for dd... Ss announces that he has messaged bm and she is on her way across 2 towns to bring his teddies?! Like wtf why?! He's nearly 11 in Nov.!!!  I don't want bm landing here with teddies, is ss that insensitive I don't think so ####off!!!!! 

Hubby has decided that nows the time to 'ask' to reinstate the 2 x week night sleepovers.. Which makes perfect sense considering he's working even longer hours to pull back from covid AND the grandparent has just completed on buying his former home, the one that's even further away, when she's the one there for handover. Add to that I've just started a new job, we are all quite stressed atm. It's truly not my circus if that's what he wants to do.. Yet this morning he asks can I write the email to ex, and do I think that I will be able to do any of the lifts /handovers? 'what?!?

Covid 19, awful times, I hope everyone is bearing up as best as can be?

I am honestly wondering if its me being sensitive or as I suspect, bm doing her usual controlling and deliberately rearing her ugly head. 

Only a few weeks ago we said that, as we are abroad (3 days returned yesterday then straight to a concert last night for my bday ) so shall we make up the time with ss. Bm jumped at chance and said yes this Sunday to weds (so she can go away with bf) cool, whatever. This is all by email for this exact kinda reason. But ss also messaged from his phone Thurs 'see you on sunday' etc.