I might be the worst person in the whole wide world, but another post got me thinking...I really want to be a completely uninvolved SM. I would like to be cordial to my SS8 EOW when he's here, but basically just go about my business and take care of my baby. I don't want to hang out or chat or play games or anything. He can do whatever childlike things he wants to do and interract with my DH however he likes, I just don't want any involvement at all.

SS8 is here and driving me up the wall. He wants my approval. He really does. But the way he goes about it is just not working for me. And I don't know what to do or say.

Whenever I am in the room with him, he immediately runs over to my BioSon (8 months old) and starts coo cooing baby talk at him and saying "Kissy Wissy" and kissing him all over. Meanwhile, he is glancing back at me to make sure I am watching. It is really driving me nuts.

BM is the custodial parent, with DH having SS every other weekend. If BM sends SS to stay with his Nanna about 3 nights a week (minimum), is that being neglectful? SS would say he absolutely LOVES being at Nanna's. But DH would like to have SS over HERE if he is not with BM.

SS would rather be at Nanna's than anywhere else. It's like Disneyland for him. And quite frankly, I swear that his Nanna secretly thinks she is his birth mother.

Speaking of child support, I'm absolutely baffled as to why BM is always so strapped for cash that my SS8 comes over and is excited for Pop Tarts b/c "Momma can't afford to buy groceries." And when DH and BM are each going to pay for half of SS's yearbook, SS immediately goes and gets cash out of his piggy bank to cover BM's half. Vomit. That's what happens when the stupid biotch says stuff to a kid that she shouldn't.