So the sk's mom is getting married today. She is having a big wedding - the boys are in their tuxes all handsome, and excited about a limo ride tonight after the festivities. So why do I care? It makes me so mad that I had to go away and get married - a simple affordable (romantic) ceremony - because she left us with debt up to our ears. She left us with house that was 5 months behind that we have been trying to get caught up with. She had a car repoed that my husband co-signed for when they were married. Here we are struggling to make ends meet and stay above the water and she can go out splurge on a fancy wedding - it's wedding # 3. This was my first wedding! We couldn't even afford a reception!
So am I jealous? I don't want the step boys to see me pissed at her - but I can't help it.
At first we were suppose to keep the kids because she was going on a honeymoon. Then yesterday we were told she wasn't going. Now she just textes my husband and wants to know if we can get them till Tuesday. I'm sick with a cold and he is too. We haven't seen the kids in weeks - she always had something going on and they couldn't come over.
I told my husband I don't think we should keep them. That if she had told us earlier - it wouldn't of been a problem - but today at the last minute? Also the 12 year old doesn't have a way to school. His mom takes him in the am and I have to be at work way before school even starts. The bus can't pick him up - because the bus driver doesn't know to. Well my husband said he is not going to tell his kids they can not come over. That if they want to they can. So I guess I lost that vote - again.
My husband and I went to the beach to get married. My husband spent the day of and the day after our wedding with the boys while I was chillin in the room by myself. The plans were to go to the beach - just the two of us. Every time we go the bm has to go at the same time. So I couldn't tell my family or anyone. Somehow he must of slipped -because she was at the beach with the boys the same week at at the same beach - not even 2 miles from where we stay. Therefore, it wasn't a romantic honeymoon - it was me by myself on the beach or in my room while he was out with the boys fishing...
Ok so maybe I am PMSing... Help... I need some comfort and words....
Thanks!