My work gave us tickets to a local baseball game. It was suppose to be a family fun night kind of thing. I got tickets for lil SS who kept talking about how excited he was because the older ss and his girlfriend were going with us. It was suppose to be fun and relaxing. Well last weekend lil ss went to beach with mom's bestfriend and her son. So this weekend she says is her weekend and she and her "new family" (Her fiance and 2 kids) are going to her friends house. I and my husband are being totally ditched! I told my husband he was going to have to stand up when it was his weekend. It is not the 12 year old doing this - it is his mom. He's stuck in between the 2 and doesn't want to upset mom or dad. The court order says he gets him 2 nights a week, everyother weekend and Father days, etc. I told him to make her stick to it (after all she wrote the agreement!)
So now just me and my honey are going. Hopefully oldest ss will come - once he finishes hanging out with his friends. I guess I need to give up on having the loving family. The evil BM is going to try and control things! She is such a witch!!!