Good Morning,

Brief introduction: BM of 2 grown kids- both in college. My DH (married x 1.5 yrs been together 5yrs)has four children (all teenagers).

After years of his kids running hot and cold, I finally disengaged last evening. Told my DH that I was no longer claiming his children as any form of relation of mine that I quite simply was only his wife and would no longer accept any responsibility for any of his kids. DH says he understands but that my disengagement will strain our marriage. Today he is contemplating the last sentence I spoke to him last night: