So we have been away from his family for over a year now. Of course, DH left my internet router at their house a year ago and has not wanted to go back...ok, that's what he claimed for months. I later found out he's been back a few times, just didn't tell me, but just left the router there for his sister to use...that's what it seems now...hmmm...

Anyway, I might get a job and I told him that I NEED THE ROUTER back...he promised me he'd go get it. So today he calls his sister and their conversation went like this:

Difference and what never seems to truly move forward...

or what you want...or what you need...but about what someone else needs and what someone else wants...and it doesn't matter how hard you try, it's only ok when you do for them...but don't ask for what you need in return, because then there's a problem...or an excuse...and you loose yourself...and it's your fault...and it's you who takes it the wrong way...but when they hurt you and you still try, and you do anything within your power to make it work...then it's ok...just make sure you don't ever expect anything in return.

So I have a friend who is super sweet...tonight we talked about guys and I told her to NEVER EVER get involved with a guy with kids. She seemed puzzled. I began to explain to her WHY. She then said she had a friend who had a child and was married to a guy with 2 PITA kids.