My father died this week and left us with no instructions or a will. Granted he didn't have many things, it has caused a lot of stress. So I jumped on legal zoom and started my will. But, got hung up on how to handle my stepsons.

I got 6 screws in my ankle on Friday- my 4 your anniversary is Thursday the 27th. Yeah- it sucks, I didn't purposely break my ankle - I just shopped until I dropped!

My DH and wonderful stepdad helped me all day today to make sure our big family present ( a ping pong table) was put together and while my ds2 helped- my stepsons 13 and 10 were so happy when they came home! Ss13 is a paraplegic so finding things for the family is hard! He was really tired when he got home but- played!

Dh coaches ss10 soccer team. He drove the kid home for the last 4 seasons and I thought it was BS. Womb Donor announced in a therapy session for ss13 last spring that she can't do things with the kids because all she does is drive to soccer? Really- you drop him off 1 day a week. Dh has 2 to 3 practices a week and games at least 1 regardless of whose day it etc. the therapist scratched her head? After that comment Dh decided she would truly learn what it means to drive to soccer all of the time.

BM, why don't go out and play a game of " go hide and fuck yourself."

In a few hours my ss12 almost 13 will go in for surgery", it will only be twice in the last 10 days. You typical right? In reality it will be is 12th surgery in 2 years. And after the emergency one let week means other one next week.

And we have all of the behavioral shit going on and well, I am always the ass!!! The teachers email personally and even after they were his teachers still come to visit him.