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Almost-18 Anxiety

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 02/01/2017 - 12:29pm

I am having anxiety about the future of SD17 turning 18 in April. She graduates a month later, and then summer will begin. I have heard nothing of her plans, yet SO states that "things will change". I want to know HOW. He states that she will be required to pay rent, and pay her own cell phone and pay her own car insurance. She currently has no license and of course no job. Plus, January 1st, she started the year getting caught shoplifting and is now banned from JC Penny's for a year.

House Rules about coloring hair- Together or Separate?

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/18/2017 - 1:31pm

I am going through the tunnel of disengagement, and am seeing the light at the end! Its awesome. I still have much to go through, the future of when SD turns 18 and graduates HS is uncertain, and many things are in flux.

One thing that continues to rear its ugly head is House Rules: Chapter 1 - coloring of hair.

$250 fine and back in the stores - Winona update

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 01/16/2017 - 7:38pm

SD17, caught stealing MAKEUP SPONGES from JcPenny and banned from the chain for 1 year. The fine is $250, to be split between the two parents. So, after SD17 watches her gma a few times, she gets about $60, does she follow her fathers instructions and give up the money to help pay the fine?

Disengagement - Spreading the Good Word - update on Winona SD17 (Shoplifter)

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 01/12/2017 - 1:22pm

She has no remorse. She tells her father, that she "didn't do anything". Right. she never does anything. Then tells her mother that she "did it for adrenalin." . Never mind that she was caught on security camera taking the make up and it somehow ended up in her purse. They couldn't quite nail her completely because she said she was "going to pay for it", had money in her wallet and hadn't yet left the store. So now, what about the repercussions? Its been 12 days (lets not forget this happened NEW YEARS DAY, after she and I had had a little "thing".)

Things cant get worse? And then they do....

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 01/09/2017 - 12:37pm

So, since I've been reading the posts on this site, I've been feeling a lot of different things - some feelings of relief, some new flashes of light bulbs going off and a general sense of unease about the future with SD17. And possibly SD10.

So far, within the past year or so I have discovered that SD17 is mean, spiteful, angry, jealous. And that's not all folks. She's a pathological liar. I've known this for a long time, but BM has always had her head up her #$$ and seems surprised at recent events. "not my BABY GIRL!!!!" Yeah right.

SD17-almost-18 Caught Shoplifting for the 2nd time - and I am shocked. What to do next.

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/04/2017 - 12:44pm

SD17 has no prior records. She doesn't party at all (no friends to hang out with, no drugs, no drinking). She DOES like to lie, and she gets a thrill from pushing buttons.

Here is what I have been told: SD17 was caught New Years Day in JC Penny, while shopping with BM, and I was told that the security person claimed it was the 2nd time they have seen her stealing. She was given a warning and a fine to pay, because she is under 18. JC Penny has banned her from any of their stores for 1 year. If she tries to go inside, she has been told she will be arrested for trespassing.

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