Things over all have been going very well. My DH , and I have regained peace, and control over our lives. The last time we heard from BM was the drunk phone call that we did not answer weeks ago, but , she is still a big topic of conversation. Sometimes, this can be my fault. When I hear "the stories" about things related to her, I can make some pretty nasty comments, or better still, make relentless fun of some of the situations she put my poor DH in. I NEED TO NOT DO THIS! I know, but sometimes it's so hard!

Had to change name to suite my mood, Ursula was a good one, but it suits BM more than it does me.( in the "looks" dept. as well) I really don't mind being a witch, now if I can just get that nose wiggle down pat........

Things have been quiet on both ends after the 150 proof phone call from BM. My DH went to work as usual yesterday, and left the cell phone at home...I asked him to , so if she did call again, he would not be bothered at work, and I have enough control not to answer it. I was happy there were no calls, not even from SS, who the call was supposed to be for, to talk to me, in the first place.Now he has the phone today, but we really don't expect any thing to happen,.the past calls were at night anyways.

That was my Mothers day "dinner" yesterday, and I enjoyed every bite! I did not do anything in paticular yesterday, my DH had to work, so I dropped him off, he thought it would be good for me to have the car for the day...he was right. I went grocery shopping w/ my 18 month old son. While shopping I treated myself to a "fu-fu" items, lipgloss,bronzing powder, and mascara...cannot live without them, it's all I wear, and I have skimmped on buying any new makeup,even though I really could have used some,the past few months due to $$ issues. It was a nice treat for Mothers day.