Things have been quiet on both ends after the 150 proof phone call from BM. My DH went to work as usual yesterday, and left the cell phone at home...I asked him to , so if she did call again, he would not be bothered at work, and I have enough control not to answer it. I was happy there were no calls, not even from SS, who the call was supposed to be for, to talk to me, in the first place.Now he has the phone today, but we really don't expect any thing to happen,.the past calls were at night anyways. I almost wish SS would call just so DH can talk to HIM to see if he is ok...we are pretty sure he is, but it would be nice to hear from him. We are not going to inishiate(can't spell) anything though. So far , all is well, and I expect it to stay that way( in my wishful thinking)