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Dh passed from covid this year. My 16 ss could have cared less he was always evil sociopath. He was laughing on phone to his friends about his father being in hospital on life support. Very quickly he was threatening me with running away and taking my husband's vehicle. I solicited help from my husband's family. They tried to take him and speak to him but the little sociopath had other plans. Very quickly problems arose as in he broke into our home because he was locked out accidentally broke things. Threw constant fits about wanting to leave.

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My husband passed and now after all of this I am left with the kid. I don't know what to do. SS wants to finish school here. He wants to stay with me and I do not want custody obviously if we have seen my posts. SS has no one really. His grandpa would take him but he does not want to live with Grandpa. How do I get him emancipated because I don't want legal responsibility for him? Can he just stay with me since that is what he wants and do nothing legally?? I have no idea....

How many more years

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Ss16 has job. He waits tables at local restaurants near me. I have to bring him to work and pick him up. This is pain but he can't be trusted to drive himself. We have found out in a roundabout way that this job let's him come and go as he pleases. For example he shows up late just about daily because he can't get out of bed in time then tells me oh I don't work until later when really he's supposed to have been there early. Then I guess when it's slow they let him leave and come back whenever he feels like through out the shift. Like what?? I ask ss16 why he thinks that is OK?

wont take meds

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I took SS 15 to the Dr yesterday for his pills and we put him on a low dose anti depressant. At the apt SS was ignoring the Dr and looking at his self in the mirror at his hair.  He was not even listening to the Dr. He is so mental. The Dr explained  to him that the SSRI will not be like Adderall and that he has to take it every day and in about 2 weeks it will start working. Ok I even interrupted the Dr to make sure SS understood that and there was no issue. We get out to the car and he is like I will take the pill when we get home. Ok we go to Walmart and run a few errands and he’s fine.

its my birthday

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Today is my 49th birthday and my terrorist SS came home and started in on me about selling his used too small tennis shoes on the community website, which by the way is a website entirely based on people selling used clothes and shoes. Telling me that they are his and I have no right to sell them. He paid for them and he did not which does not even matter. Then he was telling me everything we did over the last couple of days because the terrorist group here in the town we live ininform him of our every move. Frankly, I was trying to give them away so I did not have to toss them.

Slow motion train wreck

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Last night SS came home from working with his friend all week and he was shockingly in a very good mood towards us. He was carrying on about how the other kids parent let him drive around a big city by himself without a license and how he almost got into a few fights with his coworkers over racial comments. At this point I beleive little of what SS says because he lies and makes up stories constantly. We had nice evening and let him go to the town rodeo and we go to bed real early for work. Before leaving he informs DH that the neighbors have the paperwork to take full custody of him.

neighbors

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Neighbors approached DH to say that they want to take SS in as guardians until he graduates. IDK what they think they are not family and DH told them he would do it but that they are taking full custody because SS goes on and on every day about how rich they are and how much money they have. Their teen drives a 50k truck. This womans face looks like a caricature of Hillary Clinton. SS is playing everyone for all that they are worth and I am so sick of him.

What does it look like now

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It just keeps getting worse. SS15 accused us of abuse saying we don't feed him, we beat him, and don't do enough for him, and wahhhh, wahhhhh, wahhhh. All lies and exagerations. He abuses us. Ever since we picked him up from his mother 3 years ago all he does is cry that we don;t do enough for him. Mind you the BM pawned his electronics for gas money before she dumped him on us.