I make it a habit to check the facebook page of SD17.5 every few days. We aren't FB friends, but she has her page set to public (mine is not!) so it makes is easy to see what kind of mischief she has going on. That is how I learned about her being under house arrest, hanging out with much older boys, and her new habit of smoking a hookah pipe (yeah right that isn't a bong!). I haven't told DH what I've learned on FB because the ostrich approach to things he can't fix seems to be working for him right now.

Over the weekend I noticed she was going to a concert called "naughty or nice" downtown. Didn't think much of it at the time except I probably wouldn't be allowing SD17.5 to go to such events because she is currently not on track to graduate, obviously something going on with the whole house arrest thing, but whatever it is BM's problem since she is CP.

Noticed on the news on Monday that there had been a major rave bust downtown at an event called... you guessed it "naughty or nice." Lots of ecstasy and other drugs, scantily clad girls dancing on tables. Several arrest including a few juveniles according to the news.

Still not saying anything to DH about the connection I discovered, but I am finding is so interesting that SD 17.5 has not returned his calls about xmas that he has left for the past few days. Do you think I could get lucky enough that SD17.5 is one of the juveniles arrested at the rave and won't be "available" for xmas day?!?!?