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Woman at Daycare asked if SS was autistic to DH

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My daughter and SS go to the daycare provided by our marriage classes once a week from 10:30-2:00 and they have for over a month. Well SS hasn't been blatently misbeahving but he zones out, ignores everyone around him and will focus on one thing (the T.V) He doens't engage with the other kids execpt to rude to them or tell them to go away. I keep telling DH that SS has major social issues that go along with his severe ADD but he doesn't listen, well it hit him today.

Why does MIL make it SS against BD?

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I knew that my MIL favored SS, she doesn't even try to hide it. She also goes out of her way to try to say that SS was farther along delvolpmentaly at his age then my daughter even though everyone else including DH and MIL's sister and mother say that our daughter is months ahead of SS at that age. So I log on facebook today and she is saying that my daughter is just now walking at 14mths and that she was slow.......

SS just accused me of lieing?????????????

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My SS just came into the living room and said "I smell fresh baked cookies" There isn't any cookies so I tell him "No, you don't there is no cookies" So he is like "Fine, I smell brownies" There is no brownies so I tell him "No, there is no brownies" So he looks strait at me and says "My nose isn't broken your lieing" WTF.....why would I lie about cookies........there is no cookies or brownies etc....... I don't get this kid, now if I do make them I don't want even want to give him any.

Proud of DH/God SS is hard headed

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So for the past week since SS came back from his week at his mom's he has been awful in so many ways. But one of the big things has been him and food/batheing, since the two of those are things he thinks he can control. So I have had so many issues with him eating all week but he had given in to my awesome powers though and eventually eaten but on Saturday with his dad here things came to a head. DH made mac&cheese, which SS likes and he was hungry but he decided he wanted to protest mean old dad and me so he didn't eat lunch.

SS came back from a week at his moms and is ruined

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Well SS has been home from BM's for 4 days and they have been awful. It's never easy with him but it was getting better and the rules seemed to be working. He was gone one week and he has been awful since he has returned. He hasn't listened to anything, been blatently disresectful, and has been doing his acts of rebellion like not eating or batheing. Today he was saying that kids always win and being rude when I told him no they don't all rights and privlages come from adults and sent him to his room.

DH told me he was relieved we lost the baby

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It was my fault, I was getting the feeling he felt that way and I asked him. I just wasn't prepared for him to admit it. I want another child maybe not right now but someday, he doesn't so the pregnancy I just lost was an accident. I mean I knew he didn't want another child but it hurts me that since we were he was relieved we lost it. I wouldn;t have been thrilled with the timing but I would have accepted that I was pregnant and then embraced the joy.

Well I was pregnant but now I'm not

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Well I was in a lot of pain earlier and then realized I was bleeding. I was a little over a month pregnant and I lost the baby. I didn't even now I was pregnant, I thought maybe a few days ago and was going to go get a test this weekend. I don't need the test now. I don't know why I am so emotional over this I didn't even know I was pregnant and I wasn't far along but I still can't stop crying. To make things worse my SS is here and I can't even stand to look at him right now I just want him to leave but he is going to be here till Monday.

BM quizzed SS about DH and I's daughter on the phone........I'm Pi&&ed

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BM called to talk to my SS today on the phone and we missed the call so DH had SS call her back a little bit ago. Conversation seems normal enough at first, DH's phone is loud so I can hear her talking and obviously hear everything SS is saying. Then the convo changed, she started asking if my daughter was walking then she was asking if she was talking, what was she saying, was she able to eat by herself. I mean what the fu** how is any of that her business. I would get it somewhat if my SS had brought it up but he didn't.

When push comes to shove DH is there for me

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I got a call this morning from my mom telling me that I need to go to my grandpas soon and see him. He is almost 90 and he has been deteriorating slowly for a few years. My aunt called her and told her that he has had some sudden changes the past week, rapid wait loss and memory loss. My mom wanted to make sure that I saw him incase this continued and next time I see him he forgets who I am. Now I talk to my grandfather a few times a week on the phone and its always been a bit disjointed so I didn't notice since I hadn't seen him in person in a month.

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