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I made the cake, and ate it too!!
Before I get into all the bs, I will start with something on a better note. My new job is going to be amazing. I can still work "nights" (I say this bc sometimes I got to work at 1pm and get off at 7am the next morning, that's like days and nights lol), I just have to make "exceptions" to that rule like when corporate or stare are in. We are actually going to have two of us. Basically partners, but IM the one with the "official" title. The new ADON will just be more like a co-DON. Anyway, I'm super excited about this opportunity, and the cash is nothing to sneeze at. Haha!
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Before the BS and the PAS...
I was reading a comment thread on another post, and i got really sad. Jealous, too. Someone had posted a comment about how their skids said I love you first, and how they had a really good relationship. It got me thinking. My skids said I love you first, too. That was 4 years ago. When they were littler and sweeter, and before they were being programmed to hate me. I teared up as I remembered the very first "incident" we had with BM losing her mind. It was 4th of July 2008. I was with my DH (then BF) at his house and we were yeti g ready to take the kids to the fireworks show.
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Completely O/T: but I got some incredibly good news tonight!!
I have been working my butt off at this new job that I got pretty recently after graduating with my masters in December. Because I have zero experience in management, and because I am 25, I have been the ADON of a behavioral health facility. Well...beginning May 1, guess who is now interim DON until our DON "officially" retires in August. Meaning she will be training me "officially" (to me the ADON position has been unofficial training) from May 1-August 30, and then I take over.
So ungrateful!!
Okay, so I posted last night about how my SD5(turns 6 Friday) did not thank neither her dad or myself for any of the gifts she received yesterday at dinner for her birthday. I would really like some feedback on how to handle this, maybe I'm being unreasonable, but I really just think that it's a matter of her being completely ungrateful. My mother gave me the best advice last night when I talked to her: "The more you give, the more they expect. It doesn't make them appreciate you any more just to get them more"...
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Asking too much?
I'm going I write more about the details later but I have to know what you guys think about this- is it too much to expect a 6yr old to say thank you to their "parents" (be it BM and her SO, or DH and myself) when they receive a gift for their birthday? Or even more so, a pluthera of gifts and to never not once say thank you? Is that too much I ask? She has manners bc while our at dinner she thanked the hibachi chef constantly, she said thank you when the hostess told her happy birthday, so yeah. Anyway, am I being unrealistic for expecting a thank you?
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O/T: my wonderful skid free evening...
So as some know, skids are with BM this weekend. I am also not working this weekend, and normally try to schedule this to be the case with my job. I came home after dropping the skids off at school, stayed on here all day, did some online shopping, then slept for a couple of hours before my best friend came over. We normally get together at least once a week for wine and catchin up. She has been gone for 3 weeks and so we had a lot of catching up to do. It was a wonderful stress free evening!!
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O/T slightly...anyone else catch dr Phil today?
This woman has a child that has almost killed his you get brother three times in the past month!! He held an iron on his chest and the pictures we brutal. My first thought was, where I. The HELL was this poor stressed mother while there was a clearly hot and ready iron just waiting to be used by the other child?! I mean...especially if you know this child is extremely dangerous to your other child, why would you not keep the "victim" (for lack of a better word) child by your or within eye sight at all times?!
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The rest of the story (edited :))
Okay, now that I'm at my desktop, I believe that I can properly formulate a sentence/paragraph. I apologize for the confusion from earlier. Attempting to blog via my phone probably isn't the best idea anymore. Anyway!!
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Gosh I'm "gone" for a day and apparently I've missed a lot!!
After reading through a few posts/comment threads from yesterday I know I'm late on this but I'm jumping on the "pissed I bought it if it was fake" bandwagon regarding Lulu. I too cried when I read about the poor dog dying and the pain the poster must've been going through. It made me sad. Now I'm mad I got sad about something not real!!
Wow...
I'm not sure why I continue to expect things to be different with BM. She continues however to surprise me with her new lows.
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