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The police came

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well , the police came last night for a statement , they are trying to gather evidence about the young man, having sex with a minor.... dosent matter if she consented or not , he was an adult.
They wanted a statement from us , we said no.
Not that we are defending the fellow its just that after everything we have seen and heard, what she has done and still doing we feel she has to take some of the blame as well. We know its all due to the upbringing and the way the bm raised her and what she use to see.

it's all so quite !!!!

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well, unless they have got the message that we arent taking any bullshit or they planning something else , it's very quite ... sd didnt even ring hubby for fathers day...
here in aussie land a show A Curreent Affair ran a story about the news and how unfair there are are so i wrote in and hopefully more will.

I dont know if i like the quite its a bit nerve wrecking!

sd is arranging prank calls!

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since she left , i have been getting stupid calls asking for weird names , or say our take away is ready or silly things, i was trying to ignore it and brush it off, but this morning i was in a happy mood and trying to move on and not think about sd as it's been really hard , i received another one , finally told hubby , we rang the number back as the stupid kids rang on home phone he admitted he goes to her high school , but recons got the number out of the phone book! can't of as our number isn't listed, my hubby shutup quick!

SD's lies are coming out!!!!

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ok... last year when she was 14 she meet a 18 yr old (lied and said 17)@ work. He was an assistant manager!
anyway she went off with him for a day(,we didnt know) they texted and so forth , we put a stop to it, rang him , the mother , the work, sd was fired! We did everything because sd hated us... so now to the present .

PLAYING MIND GAMES:?

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well the sd rings last night ( the bm was in town this weekend so our ears were ringing. bm, the 3rd party and that would of been playing sd ) as she rang to tell hubby that "it's in her best interests for her to end their relationship"! he was devastated. And angry... we know its them in her head, but she's like a lamb following to the slaughter... i wonder if she realises just what she has done? Because when there comes a time she decides to want her father back he might not want to go there again! Hubby let the councellor know this and pass it on.

Dont blame it on the sunshine , blame it on the step mum!

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sd 15 rings tonight and says she will go the councelling session only if hubby 's prepared to have a relationship with her. No one else included. He said i'll be there but i cant promise that i'm a package deal!
then she goes on with all this shit (so much like the bm) i'm too blame for why shes soo messed up i did this the 18 months past , nothing to do with what her mother put through all those 14 years , and that my 4 kids have has him around all the time she never!!!!!!

New CSA laws here in Oz and councelling

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well, u all know what i think of the new laws here, they suck and are very unfair... but now we need to force the bm to do her tax as what hubby pays has to be equal to her wage before they start taking , at the moment they are going on her pension income from last year and we no damn well, shes been workn all year.... Sooner or later she will have to do it as she will want her return but till then they will want blood out of a stone from us...

lost feelings

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well, the other night i was really overcome with missing sd , before she got the attitude and things got out of control.
We would have girly nights... face masks , painting nails , movies and of course the chocky... i was really suddenly hit that it was over.

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