TO BE OR NOT TOO BE?
Well, she hasn't repled so i guess i know where i stand. I knew they would be in her ear i just thought maybe i could reach an emotional time we had together!
Stupid hey!
You know reading all these things bm's do or say, its soo crazy they are only hurting their children in the end! Some of the tales we are all telling are so outrageous! And i think to myself if hubby and i ever ended would i do these crazy things? NO ... never i could not put my kids through any of this manliputation.... using the kids as weapons.. i just could not do any of these things. Makes you really think just how unhappy these woman are. They on most circumstances left and took the children in the first place and everything else and are still not happy in their lives so choose to hurt the hubby through the kids. How evil can woman get? Is there ever going to be a time when things can be made easier on all?
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Yep, most of the BMs
hate their ex's more than they love their children. It's sad.....
EXACTLY Sia
they do hate the ex and his new spouse more than they love their kids. yet sadly they think they are the most wonderful mother sin the world and that dad and SM dont love the kids at all. its sick.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Having no kids of my own,
no I can't imagine treating one you are privileged to have, like that. Or having a DH like mine and treating him like that too, although he may have been different with her, but it doesn't sound like it.
To me the time that will be easier is when our BM is off the payroll and SD is out on her own! not sure when that will be though, maybe 5 years away, maybe less? Hang in there honey!!
"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin
These are words I hate
"I'm doing what is in the best interest of the children". Oh my God, if I heard BM say that one more time I would scream. I finally said to her, "just because you say you are doing what is in the best interest of the children, it doesn't make it so"
Yeah she doesn't like me much. But after all this time, and years of reflection, I think she really believes that she is doing what is in the best interest of her children. She just doesn't see the reflection of her actions. Just like Newton third law said. "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction".
I guess they don't see the opposite reaction, the one that hurts their kids, steals their childhood from them, and cripples their ability to have healthy relationships in their adult lives.