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Sleeping arrangements?

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We *FINALLY* move into our house this weekend... barring something else going wrong. Windows finally arrived Tuesday and were installed yesterday!!!
Now, there are a few ways I could arrange the girls sleeping. I have a large bedroom (bedroom A) and a tiny bedroom (bedroom B). Bedroom A could fit a trundle bed or a single bed and crib or two single beds. Bedroom B could fit either a crib or single bed. SD2 is used to cosleeping with GBM. Her cosleeping with DH and I is not an option. She’ll be overnighting at least one night a week.

"It's a first trimester thing with her... like morning sickness...

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... it's dump-the-guy-that-knocked-you-up sickness."

That lovely quip is from BM's brother.

Can I just say... CALLED IT! BM's second trimester doesn't start for another two weeks yet when I asked how her SO was today during the visit, BM looked at me and said "What SO? I'm single." I kid you not my face did this: :jawdrop: Classy BM. Very classy....

Anyone else think this is suspicious?

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SD2 has been sickly since she was born. Not like small and weak, but physically ill on a ridiculously regular basis. She always had a cold or the flu the first two years of her life. She had allergies up the wazoo and asthma.

Then BM tried to commit suicide and got sent to the loony bin. BM's mother, GBM, started taking care of SD full time and BM was pretty much absent until 3 weeks ago when she found out she was pregnant, went off her meds, and moved back in with GBM.

Well, we were right...

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BM is pregnant again and cried to GBM until GBM let her move back in with her. She managed to say a multitude of stupid things during Sunday's visit with SD.
- She's getting fixed after this baby because it's her second "oops-a-baby". I was tempted to ask if she was broken or if she knows there are ways to prevent "oops-a-babies" other than only have sex while pregnant. (This baby is from her first "real" relationship since her ex left her while she was in labor with SD. No joke, she was IN LABOR.)

"There's never an egg timer around when you need one..."

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(Quote is from the movie "The American President". One of my favorite movies.)

BM signed off her rights to guardianship (temporarily... she just needs to find a job for the second time in her life and actually keep it for more than a few weeks, find her own place to live, and be sane. Yeah... I'm thinking "temporarily" is going to be a long time) on January 7.

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