Letter from SD as I am on my way out
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Well, I am leaving this sick-a$$ blended sorry excuse for a family in a couple weeks BUT, here's this: I always place my SD13's allowance (and my BD's) on the dresser in SD's room before she comes back from BM's house...not this time. This time she left me a note calling me a mother f-ing cun7!! And a B1tch. I was speechless. Oh also it said that her daaadddyyy said he needed a lawyer and she hopes its to divorce me because she hates me. (Actually I am divorcing HIM and all of his worthless, trashy disgusting skidmarks).
Oh, she can do no wrong.
Oh, she can do no wrong. Never does anything wrong. "I promise to God I didn't take it, break it, spill it, etc"
Wow, what kind of 13 year old
Wow, what kind of 13 year old would write such terrible words? This should even MORE confirm to you that your decision is the right one. Can you imagine this kid in a few years?
Look forward to peace and not having the stress of these nutjobs in your life. I left (wasn't married) and after about 3-4 weeks, it was glorious. It's more the weird feeling of "changing the habit" of going there after work, changing your routine, etc. that felt "hard"..didn't miss the other stuff for even one micro-second.
I LOVE not having the dread in my stomach whenever I knew they were coming over, which was 50% of the time. I feel like I got to quit a very stressful, unpaid, crappy job.
Good luck!
Yes. I left for 4 months last
Yes. I left for 4 months last year. I came back because, well, statistically speaking most abused women leave an average of 7-8 times before it sticks. Um yeah.
Funny part, I have the letter
Funny part, I have the letter but haven't told Dh yet. SD HAS TO KNOW I HAVE IT SO SHE IS SQUIRMING BIG TIME THIS WEEK. I'm saving the letter for after I move out. I was going to settle for less $ than I have to but now I'm not. I'm letting h know that his perfect little girl cost him an extra $9500. HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN he can see it. Im thinking about putting it on social media so everyone knows that perfect, straight A, daddys little precious is as fake as h is.
absolutely. H already
absolutely. H already threatened to "drag me through the mud" for "spending the night with other men" Umm, I am a grown ass woman and I will spend the night anywhere I damn well please when I feel like my safety is at risk...Spending the night with other men=my brother, my best friend who I lived with for 4 months when I left last year, my sister's boyfiend and my sister at their apartment.
This letter helps prove the hostile environment, if the 13yo GIRL talks like this, guess who she learned it from?
When we finally went to court
When we finally went to court to respond to the Sperm Clan's attempt to get custody of my Skid when he was 2yo two weeks after we married their attorney tried to fabricate a long history of cohabitation between my bride and I prior to getting married. My bride was a star on the stand during that crap.
The Sperm Clan's attorney kept grilling her about the living arrangements while we were dating her first semester at university and my last semester before graduation. DW: "Why would he live in my crappy apartment when he owned a condo that was much nicer than my apartment?". Their attorney started stuttering at that point and she just kept him on the ropes for every question he asked after that.
They made a big deal over her and the Skid relocating to join me in CA the week before we went to Tahoe to get married. She shook her head and said "My mother in law was with us the whole time in our corporate apartment. Would you be doing anything you would be uncomfortable doing if your future MIL was staying with her son the week before you married him?"
The coup de grace was when she asked his attorney to "Explain to me why you have a problem with two consenting adults getting married and apparently you have no issue with your client impregnating a 16yo when he was 24 and cohabitating with another 16yo now that he is 26 that he did not marry until last week to avoid being arrested for statutory rape when he showed up for this hearing? Where is his wife anyway? Why isn't his 16yo wife in court with him? My husband is here with me. We have no issue discussing out marriage. What is (Dipshitiot's) problem with putting his child bride on the stand?"
At that point the Sperm Clan's attorney could not get her off of the stand quick enough. }:) }:) }:)
Be ready to have some fun with this shit in court. Plan your thoughts before you go and roll this note out at the proper time to demonstrate why you felt in danger to the point that you had to stay with your brother, sister & BIL, and your long time childhood BFF/former room mate.
Take care of yourself and congratulations on your new life.
No, I didnt leave the
No, I didnt leave the allowance BECAUSE of the letter. I think SD was going to slip it into one of the boxes that I am packing so I would find it later and forgot or something??
My kiddo is staying with her
My kiddo is staying with her father till the end of the month. I get to spend time with her after work. I do so a few times a week. Luckily her dad is on my side...not trying to bash me for marrying and going back to a loser with my daughter in tow. But I had to get BD OUT OF HERE. I'd be gone too, but work stuff...plus I am guarding my belonginmgs. Last time h destroyed some of my things.
I KNOW!!!!!! Everthing he
I KNOW!!!!!! Everthing he accuses me of HE is actually guilty of!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Enter that note into the
Enter that note into the record at the divorce hearing so that daddy-kins has no choice but to hear what a toxic Jr. C-word his spawn is. I would.
In fact, have your attorney have him read it out loud to the court when your STBXDH is on the stand. }:) His precious little crotch dribbles toxic words should sound really nice coming out of his own mouth as he reads her note to you.
Thank you. Me too!
Thank you. Me too!
I wonder though...we have no
I wonder though...we have no children together so we are just dividing property...how much is his abuse or his (unprovable-because they are untrue) allegations about me "spending the night with other men" going to effect the outcome ?
Holy crap what a damn brat.
Holy crap what a damn brat. She's going to be one of those fucked up, insane BMs one day. Just watch. I would take that sorry DH for all you can.
Thanks guys! I'm now 1 week
Thanks guys! I'm now 1 week away from being out of here! Yay! I can't wait! Believe me, I WILL keep the letter and I really like the idea of dh having to read it aloud on the stand. Yeah, thanks to sd, I NO LONGER HAVE ANY MERCY FOR ANY OF THEM! So I AM going to take him for every cent that I can. I'm sure sd will do a happy dance that I'm leaving but boy is she going to be in deep shit when daaadddyyyy finds out that she cost him a pretty good chunk of extra change. Bam Bitch! There goes her BRAND NEW MUSTANG she was going to get when she turned 16. (I'm sure my kid would've ended up with a 22 year old clunker!) Even if we never make it to trial, I WILL send the letter to dh with a note explaining wwhy I had to take so much more money. I WANT that kid to be FOUND OUT! Because she can do no wrong, doesn't lie, etc.
Don't send the letter, send a
Don't send the letter, send a notarized copy. Keep the original and several notarized copies for yourself.