an elderly widowed neighbor knows about what the skids did to me (and the extreme degree which included name calling and physical threats) and had known them since they were born. she knew the bm well right up until the time bm decided to have an affair with an old lover while dh was overseas in the miliatary.

i spoke to her about adult sds and she told me to just laugh and forget about it. ??? i was speechless.

i chalked it up to her not understanding.