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Letter from SD as I am on my way out

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:02pm

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Well, I am leaving this sick-a$$ blended sorry excuse for a family in a couple weeks BUT, here's this: I always place my SD13's allowance (and my BD's) on the dresser in SD's room before she comes back from BM's house...not this time. This time she left me a note calling me a mother f-ing cun7!! And a B1tch. I was speechless. Oh also it said that her daaadddyyy said he needed a lawyer and she hopes its to divorce me because she hates me. (Actually I am divorcing HIM and all of his worthless, trashy disgusting skidmarks).

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:14pm

Oh, she can do no wrong. Never does anything wrong. "I promise to God I didn't take it, break it, spill it, etc"

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Submitted by sportslover on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:12pm

Wow, what kind of 13 year old would write such terrible words? This should even MORE confirm to you that your decision is the right one. Can you imagine this kid in a few years?

Look forward to peace and not having the stress of these nutjobs in your life. I left (wasn't married) and after about 3-4 weeks, it was glorious. It's more the weird feeling of "changing the habit" of going there after work, changing your routine, etc. that felt "hard"..didn't miss the other stuff for even one micro-second.

I LOVE not having the dread in my stomach whenever I knew they were coming over, which was 50% of the time. I feel like I got to quit a very stressful, unpaid, crappy job.

Good luck!

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:15pm

Yes. I left for 4 months last year. I came back because, well, statistically speaking most abused women leave an average of 7-8 times before it sticks. Um yeah.

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:18pm

Funny part, I have the letter but haven't told Dh yet. SD HAS TO KNOW I HAVE IT SO SHE IS SQUIRMING BIG TIME THIS WEEK. I'm saving the letter for after I move out. I was going to settle for less $ than I have to but now I'm not. I'm letting h know that his perfect little girl cost him an extra $9500. HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEN he can see it. Im thinking about putting it on social media so everyone knows that perfect, straight A, daddys little precious is as fake as h is.

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:24pm

absolutely. H already threatened to "drag me through the mud" for "spending the night with other men" Umm, I am a grown ass woman and I will spend the night anywhere I damn well please when I feel like my safety is at risk...Spending the night with other men=my brother, my best friend who I lived with for 4 months when I left last year, my sister's boyfiend and my sister at their apartment.
This letter helps prove the hostile environment, if the 13yo GIRL talks like this, guess who she learned it from?

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:26pm

No, I didnt leave the allowance BECAUSE of the letter. I think SD was going to slip it into one of the boxes that I am packing so I would find it later and forgot or something??

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Thu, 01/15/2015 - 6:31pm

My kiddo is staying with her father till the end of the month. I get to spend time with her after work. I do so a few times a week. Luckily her dad is on my side...not trying to bash me for marrying and going back to a loser with my daughter in tow. But I had to get BD OUT OF HERE. I'd be gone too, but work stuff...plus I am guarding my belonginmgs. Last time h destroyed some of my things.

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Sun, 01/18/2015 - 8:30pm

I KNOW!!!!!! Everthing he accuses me of HE is actually guilty of!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Sun, 01/18/2015 - 8:34pm

I wonder though...we have no children together so we are just dividing property...how much is his abuse or his (unprovable-because they are untrue) allegations about me "spending the night with other men" going to effect the outcome ?

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Submitted by StepKat on Sun, 01/18/2015 - 8:36pm

Holy crap what a damn brat. She's going to be one of those fucked up, insane BMs one day. Just watch. I would take that sorry DH for all you can.

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Submitted by Jelly2 on Fri, 01/23/2015 - 2:32pm

Thanks guys! I'm now 1 week away from being out of here! Yay! I can't wait! Believe me, I WILL keep the letter and I really like the idea of dh having to read it aloud on the stand. Yeah, thanks to sd, I NO LONGER HAVE ANY MERCY FOR ANY OF THEM! So I AM going to take him for every cent that I can. I'm sure sd will do a happy dance that I'm leaving but boy is she going to be in deep shit when daaadddyyyy finds out that she cost him a pretty good chunk of extra change. Bam Bitch! There goes her BRAND NEW MUSTANG she was going to get when she turned 16. (I'm sure my kid would've ended up with a 22 year old clunker!) Even if we never make it to trial, I WILL send the letter to dh with a note explaining wwhy I had to take so much more money. I WANT that kid to be FOUND OUT! Because she can do no wrong, doesn't lie, etc.