I have some funny BM antics to share today, this has been a intersesting few days to say the least. It starts the day before Mothers day, when DH called his mom to talk to her, and wish her a happy mothers day and stuff. They of course started talking about the skids, and MIL confessed that when she saw them a few weeks ago, SS told them- "mom is looking for a boyfriend", then he says- "the one she is seeing now looks just like my dad, it's scary". DH got a bit sick over that, lol, and I just laughed it off, cause it's typical of BM. I do wonder if the skids have said anything like that to this "twin" guy of BM's.....that would be really funny! So anyways, after we stop gagging over that info. we go on with our weekend, and mothers day was great. On Monday, we had a family gathering to go to, it was a ceremony for DH's grandma who passed away a few months ago. She was in her 90's and I got to meet her once, a month before she died actually. Well all the family is there, and there were of course a lot of old photo books being passed around, and one of them had a huge full page sized wedding pic. of DH and BM (puke) I fluffed it off, and so did DH, but he wants his sister to throw that pic. away, it was in a old book so what can you do, but it would be nice if she tossed that one, lol. It's always a bad time to see BM's face. So, yesterday took the cake, I got on my myspace page, I had not been on for those past few days, and there was a message for me. It said it was "from the queen", and "happy mothers day"....I thought it was from my sister, or a friend, joking with me, I open it up, and it's from BM (picture bomb going off here) It was this unbelieveable mothers day "rant", and she was going on and on about me being a loser, and DH is a loser, and how he will leave me too someday, and I will be alone with my "idiot son" (that one hurt, i admit, no one talks about my son like that!) And how I tried to "steal" her kids, and a bunch of other things I have heard before. That we are not a real family over here and never will be, blah, blah, blah. So I'm sitting here surprised. I have not talked to SS on myspace for a few days, DH talks to him to, not just me or anything like that, and we are careful what we do write to him and keep things light, but I guess that's just not going to fly anymore. I do admit, we feared something like this might happen, but things were going fine now for a while. Who knows what set her off, could be a long list of things, but what a coincedence that this happened now, as BM has been a topic of discussion, AGAIN, for the past few days! Well I deleted it, then cleaned out my page a bit, as I plan to just let it sit dormant for a while. I don't want to keep having stuff like that happening. It is too bad, as it was nice to communicate with SS, and if he asks why we have not been on it, we plan to just say we have been extra busy as summer is almost here. No reason to take any "bait" from BM. DH and his family do believe that it's all due to BM not getting over DH, and still being in love with him (if there was any love in the first place???) OR, is this just a sickness with her. I think she is just a hater, and she is territorial over the skids. I told my DH that my Ex still has some love for me (thats no secret), but he does not treat me like this, or do these kinds of things. He has his life, and we have ours. I wonder with BM, if she is just letting her bipolar take over, and maybe drinking again, and that's why she will never change. But I guess DH and his family believe it's love?? Pretty screwed up to me. What do you all think??