Petty Crocker stuff
So backstory...my cousin and his wife divorced over 30 years ago. Not sure why because I was just a teenager and obviously didn't need to know about adult crap other than, they divorced. My cousin ended up moving to Arizona where he met his now wife and they are still happily married after all these years. My cousin had 3 kids, 2 boys and a girl. They used to do visitation by flying to Arizona on school breaks, Holidays, summer. Then when the boys got to be in their early teens, they wanted to move to Arizona and they did. The girl stayed here with her mom, but has a good relationship with my cousin and his wife in Arizona. My cousin's wife has always treated all three of the kids like her own. She is very sweet. Boys are still is Arizona with their own families now, and successful careers.
So yesterday was BM's (my cousins's ex wife) birthday. Girl kid posted a picture on facebook that her and her mom celebrating BM's birthday. First person to comment was stepmom (my cousin's wife) with a "Happy Birthday!" There are about 10 more comments after hers and BM liked every single comment except for SMs. LOL What the hell? It's been 30 years bitch! Nobody's saying they have to be best friends, but is being cordial so difficult. I HATE both of the BM's I have to deal with, but if one of them wished me happy birthday, I would say thank you. Hell.. GBM bought me some floral arrangement at a rummage sale once years ago and had SD give it to me. As much as I couldn't stand the woman, I called her and thanked her for her thoughtfulness. Do simple manners not exist anymore?
In other news, SD has been here for a week and I haven't seen her once! No clue where she is staying, and don't care. I guess DH saw her yesterday when he and his friend went to the sporting good store where she works. DH said she asked if he wanted to go to dinner last night. BS7 had a pizza party at karate, so we were going there... buh bye! Have fun DH! He said he had no desire and was going to tell her that he just wasn't feeling up to it...but he ended up going to his friends house instead for dinner lol Not sure if DH has heard from SS19 and I don't want to ask. His usual M.O. is to call right before Christmas and right before Birthday so DH can take him out to dinner and hand him money.
Last day of work for me until 1/2/18! I don't get on Stalk much at home, so Merry Christmas to you all!!
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Thirty years and still
Thirty years and still playing crazy. That doesn't give me much hope lol. BM2 has me blocked on FB but is still fakebook friends with DH's eldest two. Whenever pics are posted and BM2 can see them, she'll heart every photo of DH, SS15, SS35 and SD33. If any photo contains myself or SS35's wife, no heart. Hearts everyyyyyyy other photo though. She left DH, mind you...
Crazy never ever changes.
Merry Christmas to you
People are so freaking
People are so freaking stupid... I swear
Merry Christmas, daizy!!!
Merry Christmas, daizy!!! and yes, people ARE stupid. the majority of humans on this planet are effing idiots.
My mother does the same thing
My mother does the same thing about my dad. They weren't even divorced! Dad has been dead for 30 years.
ExMIL once commented that
ExMIL once commented that she'd heard that exFIL had quit smoking. I said yes, we'd heard that too. She said she thought it was stupid for him to quit at his age (late 50s at the time). That it was all That woman's doing (his wife) and she should just let him be and not nag him into doing things.
Now they had been divorced for about 25 years at this point and he'd been remarried to That woman for about 23 years!
They also lived across the country from each other and there was no social media at the time.
I have no idea how she'd found out he'd quit or why she even cared but if there was a way to stir something up or create drama that woman would do it!
One year we took everyone on
One year we took everyone on a family vacation. It happened to be over Mothers Day. I didn't realize that when I booked the trip.
On Mother's Day I sent private FB messages to SSs girlfriends Mom, SDs boyfriends Mom and BM. Saying Happy Mothers Day and thank you for sharing your wonderful kids with me.
From SSs GFs Mom and SDs BFs Mom I got a lovely replys, wishing me a Happy Mothers Day too and thanking me for treating their kids so well.
From BM I got, "I wish My Children were with me but I'm always happy when they can spend time with and bond with their father"
So much for my olive branch!
Only once, I learned my
Only once, I learned my lesson.
And I was the bigger person, hahaha
I can tell you for a
I can tell you for a certain--it's been 13 1/2 years since the Gir and Chef broke up. and in another 15 to 20 years, the Gir would NOT acknowledge my "like" on her FB if I were to do so.
SM needs to stop getting her feelings hurt and ignore the ill-bred whore.
Oh I don't know that SM's
Oh I don't know that SM's feelings were hurt.. nobody said anything.. I just noticed that BM liked every single "happy birthday" comment EXCEPT SM's and just thought that was petty, rude and stupid. Hopefully SM doesn't give a crap.
Some people can not let
Some people can not let things go, be civil or cordial. If BM doesnt like SM, why allow her on her FB? Everyone else sees the pettiness.
I am glad you have not seen your SD. BUT Christmas is still a few days away and their are probably empty pockets with SD and SS. So MONEY. They may still grace you with their presence in search of currency.
Oh, I don't think they are FB
Oh, I don't think they are FB friends, my cousin (so BM daughter and SM step daughter) posted the pic and tagged BM. SM is obviously friends with daughter as she is good with all the kids, so that's how SM even saw it. I mean she could have just scrolled by, but she took the time to say HBD and then BM acts like a 2 year old and likes everyone's comment BUT SM.
And nope, DH already sent SD her birthday present (money) last month because he wasn't sure if she was coming home or not. So absolutely no reason for her to lurk around. And SS would never just show up at our house... he hasn't been there in like 2 years at least. Also he has no driver's license and BM2 sure as shit won't waste her precious gas to drive him out (we live about 20 minutes away) so I think I'm safe!!!
I would NEVER have affair
I would NEVER have affair whore mother as a fb friend. She tried to wave at me and say goodbye at the last skid transfer. I just glared at her. If she wants to apologize to me for trying to ruin my family, then maybe I will start saying goodbye to her. Until then, Ice Queen stares.
My husband was in the wrong,
My husband was in the wrong, no doubt about it, but he didn't plan to add a child to the mix. He was very apologetic and very distraught and considered suicide. Biowhore on the other hand, obviously planned all of this. Her oldest illegitimate child was about to age out of his disability benefits based on her disability benefits and she saw this as an opportunity to either destroy our family and try to get back together with hubby, or get a kid out of it and have 18 more years of child support, so it was a win-win for her. Also, when hubby and I were separated, she made our kids' lives miserable. She told horrible lies about them and me. They were both in the wrong, but I've had a mostly good history with hubby except for when his mental health issues made him impossible to live with. He felt horrible and apologized while the hook up partner was just being manipulative and greedy and doesn't feel at all guilty or embarrassed or sorry for what she's done. She's a pretty typical welfare whore who takes whatever she can from whomever she can. Even her own parents don't speak to her because she's tried to scam so many family members. One funny thing about her is that she had his family believing her terrible lies until she told a whopper about him to try to prevent him from any visitation. HA! It didn't go anywhere in court and now everyone hates her. She told one too many, luckily.
Better yet, as a married man,
Better yet, as a married man, he should've kept it in his pants.
It took TWO to make that baby. Forgiveness or not, it is not just her fault.
I hope for your kids sake you
I hope for your kids sake you learn to let this go.
Sorry.....but I will never be
Sorry.....but I will never be cordial to BM....after years of trying, I learned my lesson. Not olive branch is long enough with that woman.