The evening after the TPO hearing got moved, FDH got a call from his attorney. The GAL called an emergency hearing with FDH's attorney, the judge hearing the custody case that was scheduled for today, and BM's attorney regarding the skids. The GAL indicated that during the conversation she finally proved to the therapist they had to have and that she was the actual GAL for the case...BM proves to try to get the kids on disability for money, BM overexaggerates everything, BM wants to move away, BM has asked the therapist to recommend doctors in other states to help the SS's with their "problems", has asked for special autism testing in other states to be approved, etc...so she has become a flight risk. The DA in skid county has been furious that this has not been investigated in the past seventeen months with dfcs due to lack of information provided, so they also spoke with the judge...Friday around noon FDH gets a phone call..

"FDH, this is the case worker from family services in skid county. We are aware that you must follow a tpo right now, we are notifying you that SS7 is in behavioral hospital x and is now in the custody of the state, until evaluation is complete he will stay in a hospital setting SS10 will be picked up from school today and is now in state custody and will be with a foster family. The custody case is now being transferred to y judge in z court, there is a mandatory hearing Monday you and BM will need to attend"

Due to the TPO FDH couldn't take the kids, he is going to have an psych eval a drug test, he has to turn in financials, etc. He/attorney have made it known to the court that they will cooperate fully with dfcs and agree right now with the tpo in place that skids don't need to be with BM.

HOPEFULLY this tpo will be dropped Thursday and if you haven't been following the blog...since she has no skids to back up her claims of abuse/FDH spanked SS7 xmas eve and has never left a questionable mark, she has smacked the crap out of SS7's face which cause a hospital to call dfcs in the first place in November where they did nothing, and they were with her for 8 days before she even reported abuse with a fuzzy cell pic.

As for BM...found out her counsel up to this point in the custody case got approval from the judge to withdraw! She was doing all this stuff and telling her attorney nothing, the info attorney would get was only from FDH's attorney! So she has court appointed counsel now, apparently when in to speak with the social worker and the judge, came out furious and crying, telling her friends that went with her it's all FDH's fault, how is she going to get CS, she can't believe she couldn't get them back, it's all just them out to get her, etc...I guess she thought she would just waltz in and get the kids back. She has to have a psych eval as well/drug test/etc...FINALLY!

The social worker called today asking for FDH's job info so they can arrange support for the kids. Right now, CS is paid in two parts directly to the mortgate co and the little difference is paid to her by check. They are both going to be responsible for support paid to each caretaker of the kids unti this can get resolved. Here is the kicker:

BM has never held more than 3 or 4 jobs for more than 2 or so months since her and FDH got together about 20 years ago when in high school. She went straight from her parents to him. She says she can't work, she has disabilites but has been denied, or they don't like her at a job, or she's too busy with SS7's issues to get a job...she was to get a job once SS7 started kindergarten, didn't happen. She lives on food stamps, utility assistance, people she had renting rooms from her home which went horribly wrong numerous times, and she lives off her church, and doesn't have to pay for the house because the CS has been paying for that!

Let's see how well THAT goes over...next court hearing...Jan 31 for custody. As long as the TPO can get lifted, he will at least be able to visit or speak to them before then. The ONLY thing at this point not in FDH's favor is the bullcrap TPO. It was made clear during yesterday's hearing that they were taken from her care due to emotional abuse and neglect of the SS7's needs and well being.

She refuses