I posted last week asking what would happen to our 48th anniversary plans to spend 2 nights at our local casino: 1) we would have a wonderful time or 2) SD60 would call with another monthend emergency that would cause us to postpone our plans, or 3) SD60 would call with another monthend emergency but we'd still be able to go altho we'd be late and I'd be resentful.

The winner is.....#1!  We had a great time!  Ate too much, drank too much, spent too much but it was so fun!   I think DH84 pre-empted the situation by giving her some $ last week.  Whatever.

She was callIng every morning last week about 9:30 am but I realized DH84 must have made an agreement to have daily contact because at one point, I heard her say, "You didnt call me today".  I get so aggravated because she's manipulative, needy and unbalanced but I need to remember that he put up with my daily calls to my unlikeable sister for years.  And, he's currently hearing my daily calls and frequent visits to my mom who hardly disguises her dislike of him.  I need to be more tolrrant of the daily calls with his unlikeable daughter.

We are in big-time recovery now.  But, we had a great anniversary!