Well Ripley, you guessed two days, you were the closest!!! The civility lasted ONE FREAKING DAY!!!! Jabba emailed, then texted then emailed AGAIN!!! It went as follows;

Jabba-I think this is considered an "issue"...don't you ever threaten me with cps or law enforcement. I bust my ass for those girls & do everything I can for them. You EVER threaten me like that again & I promise with ever fiber of my being I will cloud up & rain all over you!

At which time I contacted the police. They came and read all the text messages, emails, and her diary where she says she hears voices! So while they are IN MY LIVINGROOM she sends these emails
Jabba-‪
‪You had your 2 cents put in...it's my turn.‬
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‪I've been thinking about it and I have a couple of guidelines myself...that are NON-NEGOTIABLE.
 
1.  I'm done with the being called names (fugly fuckarella (really?), bitch, dummy, fat, etc.) it gets nothing accomplished and any further name calling to me will be deemed as harassment and dealt with as such.
 
2. If the girls EVER say they don't want to go to y'alls house, I will not make them go.  They are having a really hard time with all of this and if they don't want to go over there, then I'm not going to make them go.  And I'm sure it will get played that I'm keeping them from him but that is not the case.  He is welcome to see Sd's at any time but if they don't want to go to your's & FDH's house or be gone from me overnight, I won't make them do it.
 
3.  SD8 is going through an emotional time right now.  She has been diagnosed (and documentation of that diagnosis can be provided) with early onset bipolar disorder.  There is a history of mental illness in my family as well as FDG (and yes insert your joke here).  That will be taken into consideration....period.  I am by no means excusing bad behavior and I support discipline but it WILL be considered if/when she has a meltdown.  sd8 does not handle overloads of emotions at all.  Think of your panic attacks and being stressed & try to imagine being 8 years old and trying to process the same emotions.‬
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‪4.  At any time for drop off FDH not there, the girls will not go with you.‬
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‪Most important guideline...unless I'm speaking to FDH voice to voice or face to face, I won't consider visitation.  I don't have to deal with you, whether you're a girlfriend, fiance, stepmother WHATEVER....I will only deal with FDH.
THEN when she could not get a reply from me she sends:

Jabba-‪My daughters won't be anywhere near you.  I'll let you explain to FDH why that is.  If he wants to see them then he can contact me.
 
I've already hired a lawyer.  Contact me again & I will let the police here see it.
 
So I told her EXACTLY what the officer said to which WAS:

ME-Police just left, after reading AND documenting your emails and texts. If you text me again on this number I will press charges. Period.

Ahh well it was nice while it lasted! Dumb bitch! I hate that fat, ugly, cunt, whore, bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rant over.....I've taken two xanax, and I'm washing them down with an Ice Cold beer! (I'm out of wine, damn it)