8 months ago Dh had his girls for the weekend he took them out to shoot his 22 rifle. I told him if Jabba ever found out it would be a shit storm. We have since moved out of the country in to a gated community. Here is how MY day went ALL DAY yesterday!!

Jabba-Let Dh know that since he decided to be the first one to teach Sd8 how to use a rifle I will be the the one to take her for her first tattoo when she's 16. (He teaches her to shoot a gun=she needs a tattoo??)

Me-Ok, Just so you know, NO tattoo. Artist will touch anyone under 18.

Jabba-No tattoo artist will touch anyone under 18 without parental permission.

Me-Nope period I tried to get Ds17's f up fixed NO ONE will touch him he's 17!

Jabba-Remind Dh his name isn't on birth certificates. If I find out either of my girls fire a gun at their age I will go loco I don't care Bubbly1...this isn't about tattoos....my girls are NOT around guns plain & simple. If he has a problem then HE can have the balls to call me!

Me-He doesn't have a problem. Apparently you do. Its not like he handed her the gun and sent her out the door. He NEVER took his hands off either of them!!

Jabba-Sd8 told me he taught her to shoot a rifle........NO NO NO....I mean it. Y'all can hate me all u want. My 8 & 5 year old daughters are not exposed to that. If he has an issue then HE can contact me! I don't freakin care! He wants to discuss this then he can contact me......otherwise they are here with me. PERIOD

Me-Fine by me. Just so you know it was 8 MONTHS ago. And I made such a big stink he hasn't done it since. I HATE guns! He's a guy, doesn't get it. I can assure you it will not happen again.

Jabba-This is crazy stupid big...that my girls are shooting rifles. I'm done with this BS...and I WILL NOT read the books Bubbly1 likes to text. DH, YOUR RIGHTS OR CHILD SUPPORT. PLAIN & SIMPLE. (Now she's talking to dh, even though she's texting MY phone!)I'm done kissing his ass. You complain about ur ex not supporting ur kids but u defend Dh not supporting his girls. His rights or support...period. I won't acknowledge anything else. Honestly, i wish he would sign his rights over.(Back to talking to me)8 months ago my ass....Sd8 told me he taught her this past weekend I want his rights....I want him out of our lives! And I will only talk to him about this!

Me-Jabba. The neighborhood we live in is FULL of houses and kids. I was there the WHOLE time we don't even have bullets for the dang gun. She's lying. Period. You saw where we live. Did you see any where to shoot a gun? Really?

Jabba-Oh she's lying? You remember you are talking about my child. All I asked her was "hey Bella what did y'all do this weekend?" She said "well daddy taught me how to shoot a long gun." So u calling my child a liar doesn't help much. (Somebody's lying here an it ain't me)She's still trying to trust u after accusing her of that ring (SHE said SHE took it)Tell Dh when he's wondering why his girls aren't coming over that you think Sd8 is a "liar"

Me-I'm gonna show him every word. Don't worry. I DO NOT lie to or keep secrets from my husband. Ever.

Jabba-Don't contact me again....from this point on (& I MEAN IT) I will only talk to Dh.....Dh...your husband (who cares) but the father of my girls. Show him every word.....PLEASE PLEASE SHOW HIM EVERY WORD.

Me-Will Do!

Jabba-No texting AT ALL. I WILL ONLY COMMUNICATE VOICE TO VOICE I WILL NOT RESPOND TO TEXT MESSAGES put Dh on the phone.

Me-I'm still helping my Aunt in Manning so, no dice.

Jabba-It's funny how u bitch & yell about ur ex not helping u with child support but u will defend Dh to the death when he's doing the same thing. Bubbly1 he hasn't given me one penny in over 2 years for Sd's....and yet I've let them see him any time. I don't do it for him...I do it because they want to see their dad...yet I'm the evil bitch (we see them when she needs a sitter)

Me-The ONLY one calling you an "evil bitch" is YOU!

Jabba-I want his rights....I don't want a damn penny from him. I want him to sign his rights over. I want his rights....that's what I want Yeah I kept that text....so let him know why he's not seeing his girls!

Me-I already told you I would. Why do you feel it necessary to repeat everything you say? I'm not a child, I'm a grown woman. Capable of remembering simple tasks!

Jabba-Because u like to make sure that Dh & the mother of his children don't communicate.....and don't try to bullshit that. I have no desire to be with "your man". You've been with him a couple of years but I did EIGHT YEARS with him. I don't want your man........I want his rights. Although since he never put his name on the birth certificate I think there won't be a problem!

Me-ThEn GO FOR IT Jabba!!! I'm done w/the back and forth! HE doesn't WANT YOU!

Jabba-I want him to give his rights over. I will say that again & again & again I want his rights You think a squirrel in ur mailbox was bad? (We moved for several reasons, one being someone put a dead squirrel in our mailbox)

Jabba-He calls me........PERIOD
Jabba-He calls me........PERIOD

Me-Once AGAIN....GO FOR IT JABBA!!! I WILL say that again and again! Don't threaten me bitch. That's where the shit stops. I'll make sure you NEVER SEE A DIME!!!!!!

Jabba-I DON'T WANT A DIME! I WANT HIS RIGHTS!

Me-Then fucking take them nut bag! Leave me the hell alone!

Jabba-I don't want a fucking penny.....I want his rights signed over. Call me a bitch again though.

Me-Bitch, leave me alone!

Jabba-It's amazing to me how too chicken shit y'all are to actually talk (voice to voice) about this(meaning she wants to scream at Dh and I)
You can explain to Dh why he's not seeing his girls!

Me-I'm Busy dealing with "grown-up" stuff. Something you obviously know nothing about. If you tell me one more time to "tell Dh" I'm taking the battery out of my Phone! Have a nice day. Nut bag.

Jabba-He won't see them anytime soon. You psycho brood mare nut bag.

Me-HAhahAhahaha=))=D=))=D

Jabba-He DOES NOT see them .....you can explain why he can't see his daughters.
Psycho brood mare

Me-That made me laugh! You should consider stand up!

Jabba-Blah blah just make sure he remembers this goes before a judge. You are always so brave behind text or computer.

Me-Ditto!

Jabba-Really? I have called u tons & u haven't answered & ur too scared to let Dh talk to me

Me-Dh is not with me. You called ONE time. I was with a customer, btw. Do you not realize any thing you're saying? Do you "shoot" first and ask questions later? And I don't give two shits if he talks to you. Fyi, all of ^^^this, is WHY I deal w/you and NOT Dh. Why the hell would he want to?
I Don't! If you go back and look. I tried to assure you the gun was 8 months ago, it hasn't happened before or since. YOU don't wanna hear it. You want to rant and be Pissed off. At what?

Jabba-I don't care... he hasn't done shit for me. From now on I will only talk to him. I gave birth to his daughters.....not yours He won't see them unless I talk to him.

Me-Why don't you talk to Heath! I'm sure he cares more than I or Dh do. Nut BAG

Jabba- Blah blah psycho

Me-Yes you are dumb slore! I've got one of your diaries nut bag. Seen Heath or heard any voices lately?? Ass hat Nut Bag!

Jabba-(an hour later!) Remember this text in court

Me-I'll have the print out. So NO Problem! Oh, and your nut bag diary for the judge or whom ever to read. The definition of crazy - repeating the same actions and expecting different results! Sound familiar? Nut Bag.

Jabba-Do not contact me again unless its Dh about the girls

Jabba-I have no problem contacting my lawyer about it

Me-Ok, re-pete, pete, who ever you are today. You've only said that about 50 times, today alone. As I've said contact one. I'll be sure to have ALL the evidence WE Need to deal with you!(Sent @ 5:50 p.m.)

Jabba-(4 hours later!) I don't care if ur mad at me. My problem is my 8 year old daughter telling me she's been shooting a rifle.

Dh-She shot a rifle one damn time, and it was 8 DAMN MONTHS AGO!!!! No one was harmed and everyone was supervised. Ur arguing about nothing & they were in MY care!(Dh is texting now, he has gotten home)I shared moments like this with my grandfather and the memories still mean a lot to me. I can't believe you would act this way knowing that this is the time of My mom's and mema's anniversaries of their deaths. You said you would never do this, but look at yourself, threatening to take my girls away Look, I know I can't do much right now, but times are tough and you're trying to take the last blood family away from me. You have accosted Bubbly1, and she had nothing to do with it. We, her and I, do what we can for Sd's. If this means just spending time with them and buying what they need, so be it! I have read everything that was sent between the two of you and I will tell you that Alli is lying about thiS. Hell, your mother calls her a liar. If you're getting a lawyer to get money from me, go ahead. I wish I had it to give to the girls myself. But, if you want to talk to me then leave Bubbly1 out of it! She has nothing to do with our arguments and will not be your punching bag for when you're upset or mad at me or anything/anyone else!

Jabba-I haven't threatened to take anyone away. I only said what I wanted. If this is actually Dh.....nothing was ever mentioned about ur mom or mema. I don't say anything to them about that because its hard for them. I don't give a rats ass if u hate me & I've NEVER threatened to take them from u. All I said is u can either help me with them or sign ur rights over....plain & fucking simple. I'm seeing my lawyer tomorrow. Contact me like this again & I will file harassment charges....leave me alone!
Jabba(again, an hour or so had passed w/o a word from Dh)-DON'T CONTACT MY PHONE....AT ALL!!!

Jabba(again, an hour w/o word one from Dh)What part of don't contact me is confusing?

Jabba-I don't want a fucking dime from you!!! I want your rights!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dh-What the hell is that then, an invite the have them for the weekend? No, that's a threat to take them away right there!!!

Jabba-(she got him to bite, damn it) I have said time & again to leave Bubbly1 out of it....I gave birth to YOUR kids Sign your rights over....please please please. I want u out of our lives!

Me-I Want you out of MINE!!!

Dh-And I want you out of our lives but unfortunately, as it looks now, it aint happening for either of us.

Jabba-Just sign ur rights over. I don't want a dime from u.

Dh-Aint happening. Why are you being so damn stupid? Forget your meds for the day? Or maybe you haven't been to church in a few weeks so you can go this weekend And just apologize next weekend about being this much of a bitch! What's a matter?? Get dumped AGAIN?? AND I want paternity tests. You always talked about solidarity and here you go freaking out and not thinking about a thing you're saying.

Jabba-Oh I can do that.....until the results don't contact me...from this moment on. Paternity test...no problem. DO NOT CONTACT ME...OR ELSE! Do not respond at all.

Dh-Or else what?!? You'll sic Heath on me? You know how much raving lunatic bullshit this is? Probably not, because you're the one being the raving lunatic. NUT. BAG.

Jabba-Call me what u want. Do u really think I care what u think of me? I will put Dh's ass on Maury in a fucking minute.

Dh-Of course not, and the feeling is mutual. I couldn't care less about you or what you say, and you know the only thing you have on me is the girls. They're your Pawn because you're pissed. I would be embarrassed to go on any show & be associated with you. You are the biggest mistake I ever made, & I do mean The Biggest!(Hehe)

Jabba-LEAVE ME ALONE.....I MEAN IT!!

Jabba-(20min later)LEAVE ME ALONE...SERIOUSLY
I removed the battery from my phone here.

7:30 this morning
Jabba-Trust me...the mistake feeling is mutual. Question the paternity I dare u!

Jabba-Argument aside from yesterday & by the way Alli told me that is was a long time ago at the other house so for that I apologize...anyway I'm worried about sd8. She's tired all the time...she has no energy & today she's starting to run a temp. I'm going to get her to a doctor & get some bloodwork done.

Me again (dh is at work)-That's nice.

Jabba-That's nice? I'm talking about sd8's health!

Me- That's nice.

Jabba-Wow....u know I know I pissed y'all off yesterday but don't take it out on the girls. And y'all aren't innocent in all this. Chewing me out for saying I didn't tell u about her accident in fayetteville but its ok for my 8 & 5 year old to shoot guns or u to chop off Sd8's hair without asking me.(Sd was hit by a car, we weren't told)

Me-I asked her supposed father. He said to cut it since its never washed or brushed ANY WAY! I wasn't fucking home when they shot the God damn rifle. I WAS PISSED TOO! But, like a sane person. I realized DH would NEVER let anything happen to OUR kids! So I let it drop!!

Jabba-Don't do the supposed father thing...there is no question he is their father. I know u wouldn't let anything happen to them...but it caught me off guard.

Me-He questions it NOT me. Not my kids, not my problem. I'm pissed, damn right. I'm pissed that I have to deal with this garbage for another 13 years...maybe.

Jabba-I'm pissed too. I'm pissed that I'm constantly being made to be a damn villain all the freakin time! Just because I'm their mom & get worried when I hear that my girls are shooting guns. Whether u dealt with it with him or not.

Me-I tried in the beginning to tell you I understand. I was mad too. You didn't wanna hear it. I told you it hasn't happened before or since. Again you didn't want To hear it. I'm tired of you making yourself the villain. You are the only one who does!

Jabba-Because I was freaked out! Guns scare the hell out of me!

Me-Order the test for Sd8. And leave us alone. They scare the hell out of me too. I will not have a repeat of yesterday. Hope you're feeling better about your Self today. Because I'm done here. Enjoy

Jabba- Agreed.

Sorry its SOOO long. This is what I deal with ALL THE TIME!!