so we get SS6 for 2 more weeks this summer...DH and I discussed it on what weeks are good for BOTH of us and that is the weeks we are getting him. BM (being the bitch she is) told DH that he was still getting the monster on the last weekend of August (which is HER SCHEDULED WEEKEND)and I have a HUGE problem with that and so does DH. Reason we have a problem with it is the 1. I am due to have our daughter at the end of August (due date is 28Th have scheduled c-section for the 26Th but it is possible that I can go into labor at anytime and I am sure any woman that has had a child knows that.) 2. BM does this so she can have weekends away from him that she doesn't want him and flips our schedule every time!(ex. we are getting him August 5Th (first day of our scheduled weekend) until August 14Th (last day before school starts and what would be her scheduled weekend) so she is going to keep him weekend of 19-21st (our scheduled weekend) and as she put it "you will have him 26-28Th". DH said since that is her weekend and we get him the labor day weekend she is trying to mess up the schedule again like she did last year and took half of his holidays from him because, as she puts it... "well since y'all had him 2 weekends in a row i am keeping him 2 weekends in a row." DH has been at the hospital for the duration of ALL his children being born and is not going to miss HIS 1 and only daughters birth because BM wants to go out drinking with friends. BM knows that I am pregnant and knows when I am due so we know she is doing this on purpose. DH also told her "since I am going to have him the first 2 weekends in August you take him the last 2 so we both still get our 2 weekends with him and the scheduled time doesn't get messed up."
you might be wondering where does this title come in to play? well here it is...since January I personally have watched SS6 for her when she had no one to do it, Kept him an extra day ( most recent example: memorial day weekend we had him Friday to Tuesday and he was supposed to go back Monday at 6) because she was "sick", and have even woke my 1yr old son up at 6am for her to drop SS6 off when the school was closed due to weather. SO... I don't think it is too much to ask if she could keep him the last 2 weekends in August (being that he has school anyway and we don't want to have to pass him off to people like she does since we actually like to spend our time WITH him and not with our friends while our mother or god knows who watches him til BM gets home) being that I have done all that for her without being like "no sorry your kid not mine better figure out something cause I am not getting him." It wouldn't be so bad if my DH didn't work so much that I am usually by myself with the kids. If i just so happen to go into labor all I have to do is make one call because my mother also works with my husband so 2 birds one stone my BS1 gets picked up and DH and I go to hospital. SS6 however will not stay with my mom so we wouldn't have time to make 20 calls to see who could get him that he would actually stay with. Which is why I think it totally makes sense that BM keeps SS6 the last two weekends. (if the shoe was on the other foot I would have done it for her) I just don't get how you cant repay my kindness to you with kindness to me. what would you do in this situation? :? (DH is going to tell her he cant keep him the weekend she is wanting us to because it is her scheduled weekend per CO and if she has plans that don't involve him then she needs to find a sitter)