What is wrong with these people? Do they have no manners? Wait, I know the answer to that one!

So in my last blog, I was upset with BM texting DH at 4:30 am over life insurance, and waking me up in the process. That was 2 weeks ago.

DH did get the paperwork from his life insurance company showing proof of everything she wants, but apparently didn't forward it on. I'm not sure if it's just laziness or if he's dragging his feet on purpose to piss her off. Both are equally possible.

So here I am at 38 weeks pregnant. At 3:56 am DH gets a text message, and as usual, it only wakes me up. I make a poor attempt to go back to sleep. At 5:00 am, he gets another text message. This time DH stirs and actually picks up his phone. Without a word, he goes back to sleep.

Turns out SD19 was the one who texted him at 4 am. She hasn't contacted him in MONTHS. He sounded annoyed and said that he didn't even understand what she was trying to say. I said it must have been a drunk text...in college, in the middle of the night, in the middle of the week! A girl she knows at school works in a liquor store that DH likes to shop at and recognized the last name on the debit card DH used and went back to SD19 and asked if she's related and described DH and me to her. That is what was so important at 4 am after many many months of no contact. I'm not sure if I should be happy for DH that she's contacting him again or not. As much as I don't like her, it does bother me that he has to pay so much for someone who has no contact with him. If there was any kind of relationship, it would make it a little easier, no?

Another thought that popped in to my head here is that SD apparently doesn't treat her father much like a father. When I was in college (or before or after college!) I never would have tried to contact either of my parents in the middle of the night unless it was an emergency. Why would SD want to contact her father in the middle of the night? That's the way you act with people your own age. Granted, cell phones were much more rare when I was in college (I had one but rarely had it on) but I don't think it shows the proper respect to an adult by contacting like that. It can wait until the daylight hours, or the parent might freak out worrying. Am I wrong about this?

So...at 5 am, BM texted DH again about the life insurance policy. SD was a good distraction because I would have been even more pissed at a second text at that time if it wasn't for her. I said to DH that I see where SD gets her manners from. They both need to refrain from texting outside of normal daylight hours. I said SD gets some slack because as his daughter, she should always be able to contact him, but there's no excuse for BM. I hope he ignored the bitch.