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Submitted by wreck on Sat, 07/06/2013 - 11:42am

My husband is sticking to his old behaviour... it has improved a bit with the baby but in general he's still the way he was before. The stepdaughters still have their demands and they don't cave in.. My husband does. With his family it's even worse than it was before. And he's being a moron about SDs.

SD18 apartment

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Submitted by wreck on Mon, 06/03/2013 - 10:43am

My husband and BM+her husband are planning to buy SD18 an apartment. Buy her the whole apartment, without any money from her. DH, BM and SD's stepfather will pay for it completely.
I feel that this is completely unecessary. With the money SD18 gets from her family, including BM, DH and stepfather, she could easily pay at least for a third of that apartment. However, she's getting it for free. She will also get a car, and I can bet that it won't be some used, average car. It'll be some expensive luxury shit that she doesn't deserve at all.

His will... his stupid stupid will

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Submitted by wreck on Fri, 05/31/2013 - 7:40am

I posted the question about my husband's will yesterday, but unforunately he has a totally different idea about it than you guys and I.
He's got quite a lot - I won't go into how much, I don't feel comfortable. But let's just say a lot.
I saw the will. He let me read it. After his passing, his 3 daughters, my steps will be left rich. My baby will have enough to live on untill adulthood, I get something but it's not comparable to anything he's leaving to the children.

My husband's will

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Submitted by wreck on Thu, 05/30/2013 - 2:41pm

My husband is preparing a new will. (And actually hearing out SDs' input :sick: )

He has 4 children - a baby with me and 3 girls with another woman. And me, his wife.

How do you guys think he should divide the inheritance? How would you write your will?

SD14 prom, continued

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Submitted by wreck on Thu, 05/23/2013 - 7:53am

I talked to DH about SD14's prom. He said that he told he that she should invite me, but she doesn't want to. When I reminded him it's the POLITE thing to do, you know, invite a married couple as a married couple, he said he knows it and he told her, but it's her night and if she chooses not to invite me there isn't much we can do. "I can't force her to invite anyone", he said.

don't get it

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Submitted by wreck on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 1:10pm

I just don't understand why would my husband pay so much attention to three bitchy teens and give in to their every wish, while completely ignoring an innocent sweet baby who doesn't even ask for anything. Sad

I hate being here

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Submitted by wreck on Sun, 05/12/2013 - 1:56pm

My baby is a bundle of joy.
My husband is an idiot. His family is moronic.
And my stepdaughters make the most of the situation.

Seriously, I have never even imagined that someone could act like this. How can a man care so little about his child? How can a grandmother care so little about her grandchild? How can an aunt care so little for her niece?
And at the same time, bow down to three other girls.

So I guess it could have been worse

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Submitted by wreck on Fri, 05/03/2013 - 4:17pm

I had my lovely baby girl a week ago. It wasn't a hard birth, it was rather quick, and much better than I expected it to be. It was also the happiest moment of my life and I can't explain how happy my girl makes me and how much I love her... This is really the greatest gift of all.

I figured I should write about how SDs behaved... Since I've been talking about them and DH on here I suppose I should tell you how it went... +I want to vent, tell at least someone about it because I didn't have the time during the past week.

SD's invitation

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Submitted by wreck on Mon, 04/22/2013 - 7:37am

This evening, SD14 has a dance performance. She invited DH a few days ago, but not me. DH asked what does she think about me coming with him, she said 'if I wanted her, I would invite her'. He tried to convince her but she said no. It is not about me seeing her dance, its the fact that she can separate me from my husband like that and he will allow it. I think that you shouldn't separate married people when inviting. I think my husband should not let her do this.. But what I think clearly doesn't count.

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