Do any of you deal with a BM who tries to act like a saint at your step Childs' school, doctors, therapy, around courts or others? Just wondering because the BM I have to deal is a great actor I'm actually going to recommend her for a Oscar. She puts on a show for all these people. But is thousands and thousands of dollars behind on child support, does not volunteer at kids school, never makes a doctor appointment for the kid. No motherly duties except put on a show for outsiders. She only calls the kid to question her about her father and I.