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Just dont understand why i feel Im the blame

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Ok...I just had a run in with my husband and I dont know whether to be upset or just take the blame that I messed up go on and pretend it didnt happen.

For three days my sd has been a total pill. She has a attitude and is very unappreciative. She has had 2 different girls spend the night and then last night she was in the bed by 7:00 pm because she was so tired from all the company. So needless to say...SHE HAS NOT DONE A DARN THING...all we have done is be at her beck and call.

Is is ok to...Need your answers on how to handle some situations

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Ok... I have come to the conclusion that my husband does not get onto my sd because he feels guilty about what she is going through aka the divorce. The divorce happend when sd was 4 or 5 she is now 13.

Is is ok for me, the stepmom, to enstill cleanliness upon the sd? Can I TELL her vs ASK her to go take a shower or to go wash her face or to go brush her teeth?

Can I tell her she will do chores this summer vs setting on her bed surfing the internet for hours?

Need some advice...in case it happens again this summer

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I have a SD and during the summer she stays with the BM mother's mother aka Her grandmother.

My husband and I have a nice inground pool that him and the BM built before they started having trouble and split. The BM moved out and left everything...so needless to say once I married my husband I gained a inground pool.

Needing some advice

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Ok, I am new to this and really do not know where to begin. I have exhausted all lines of help from my family and friends.

I hope I will be able to expalin the situation and hope that someone out there can relate and give me some advise that I can take home and practice.

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