Just a vent....but I'm really tired of having to keep everything I own in my room. A can of mousse was missing,SO found it in ss14 room.I had a pair of shoes on our backporch-wake up in the morning and one shoe is gone. I get a feeling to check the garbage can and I find it there but both SS have no idea about it ..and SO acts like its no big deal. I'm so tired of having to worry about my stuff being messed with!!!!" Its so frustrating having to hide everything and lock our room door whenever I leave the house.

I feel I'm losing patience, getting annoyed quicker and in general caring less about skids. I don't know if this is because I recently had my own child or I just don't see any positive changes over the almost 4 years SO and I have been together and I'm just tired of no type of support or help from BM ... does anyone else feel like this???

My SO who I've been with 3 years has been taking care of his boys for the past 5-6 years without any help from.BM. I asked him yesterday if BM was going to.send money for school supplies. He said he didn't know. I told him he needs to make her pay child support because she does nothing for her kids and used them to get a link card,housing money etc. She sees the like once every two years. My question is how should my SO go about getting child support. They weren't married and his older son isn't even biologically his. So he was told he will get CS for only the younger one.

BM is not in the picture. She is basically the worst mother I've ever met. She does NOTHING for her kids at all. I want to write her an email and just let her know what a fucked up person she is and what she's doing to her kids. Have any of you stepmoms that live with the stepkids full time ever wrote to the BM ? Should I bother telling her what should be obvious to her. I know I wont get anywhere but she needs to know some things.