On June 8th, I'd had enough. Enough of my boyfriend's 12 yr old son and his smart attitude, mouth, and disrespect. Enough of my boyfriend always defending his sons bad behavior and allowing his son to treat me with disrespect. I asked him to find another place to live. (His son lived with us except for the EOW he went to his moms.)

Last night, boyfriends 12 yr old son tells me 'what are YOU looking at?' in a very snotty tone. I looked at BF and said, you need to say something to him...that is completely disrespectful. BF says nothing to him (later says he didn't hear it). I told him "this is exactly what I keep telling you that I am tired of and not going to put up with any longer. If you can't set that kid straight then you and he need to pack your stuff and find somewhere else to live because I can't take his smartass attitude any longer.".

SS12 will be home alone this evening for a few times(for the first time). Boyfriend has always been OK with it but I haven't and for several valid reasons. Anyway, I HAD to get away from the kid so dear daughter and I are running out to get some things before her graduation in 2 weeks. I asked boyfriend to lock our bedroom door because I don't have gun locks on my pistol and shotgun (never needed them - he's never been there alone before). Boyfriend gets angry and tells me NO he's not and to leave him alone. I said, are you kidding?

My boyfriend finally says he understands the disengaging I've discussed with him regarding his son, 12 yrs. I still don't think he really does because he stood in the kitchen this morning as I was getting ready to leave for work (he doesn't go in until tonight) and asked me if I would make his son a sandwich. (What? you're already up and you're you're right there!) I said, "no, you need to be responsible for him". That irritated him. Then he calls me at work this morning and asked if I wanted him to make some spaghetti for his son to have for dinner tonight.