On June 8th, I'd had enough. Enough of my boyfriend's 12 yr old son and his smart attitude, mouth, and disrespect. Enough of my boyfriend always defending his sons bad behavior and allowing his son to treat me with disrespect. I asked him to find another place to live. (His son lived with us except for the EOW he went to his moms.)

He took his son to camp on June 17 and since then, I have only seen his son for 45 minutes. Since then, I can't tell you how much more peaceful my life has been without his son in it. At first, we had agreed that we would still see each other but live separately. However, since then, boyfriend has blown up on me several times and this last Friday night was the straw that broke the camel's back. Boyfriend was planning to visit his father for 5 days beginning with last Saturday. When he came back on Wednesday, I told him I thought it best he either stay with a friend or sleep in the back room until he moved on July 15th. He couldn't believe I didn't want to sleep with him. You know, some guys just think they can say I LOVE YOU and it will smooth away all the crap they've said to you and the bad way they've treated you. Don't let them get away with it. I feel so much relief since I haven't been around his son since June 17 and in the last 6 days since he's been gone. I don't want to go back to the stress he put me through.

I can't wait for July 15th to come and for him to move everything out so I can get back to leading a normal, quiet life...in PEACE! Thanks to all of you for helping me see things the way they really are!